Very rare for me vaginal orgasm, I think for the most of the women ...
usually easily achieved with a good oral or with my vibrator ;-) xxxx
I find that 99% of women take a mighty orgasm as soon as I walk in the room.
Once a prick - always a prick.
emmasweet (26-01-11)
Restricting this to "in general" is boring.
Women can achieve orgasm in a stunning variety of ways and most men can only look on in envy and wonder.
Some ways that women whom I have met can achieve orgasm:
Listening to Beethoven. (I am not kidding.)
Having a man stroke a finger-tip over eyebrows and cheekbones.
Hearing a lover's husky rasping voice.
Mechanical stimulation of the flesh above the bones at the rear of the pelvis.
Mechanical stimulation of the flesh above the hip joints.
Mechanical stimulation of the nape of the neck.
Mechanical stimulation of the bones at the front of the pelvis. (This may well be a proxy for direct clitoral stimulation.)
Being caressed on the inner thigh.
A kiss where a lover's tongue flicks over the gums on the outer side of the teeth.
Stimulation of the nipples. This is quite common with a sympathetic touch but, I understand that most women find the most men are too rough here.
With the exception of the Beethoven thing, I have direct personal experience of women experiencing orgasms in all of the ways above. As for the Beethoven, I know the woman concerned and that was real as well.
It is always worth exploring things with a lover. A few ladies, including some escorts, have told me about specific things that they like and, as a gentleman, I am of course honour bound to comply.
More often though, it is up to us guys to experiment and try to be creative.