Confusion !!!!!!!!

[JessicaJessy]

On my thread about escorts expressing themselves, I've realized something. Some people are making a huge confusion between physical pleasure and making love. Why is assumed that if or to enjoy yourself sexually it has to be making love? Have you've never heard about great sex without making love?Just wondering..........

[City Gent]

On my thread about escorts expressing themselves, I've realized something. Some people are making a huge confusion between physical pleasure and making love. Why is assumed that if or to enjoy yourself sexually it has to be making love? Have you've never heard about great sex without making love?Just wondering..........

Jessica I believe most women want to be made love to but accasionally they just want to be f***ed.


CG

[JessicaJessy]

Jessica I believe most women want to be made love to but accasionally they just want to be f***ed.


CG

Yes,that's right,but if you are f***ed,what is bad in being f***ed good?

[dr love]

On my thread about escorts expressing themselves, I've realized something. Some people are making a huge confusion between physical pleasure and making love. Why is assumed that if or to enjoy yourself sexually it has to be making love? Have you've never heard about great sex without making love?Just wondering..........

I have heard as you say great sex , hope to be doing so next week .: doc

[Sam Spade]

On my thread about escorts expressing themselves, I've realized something. Some people are making a huge confusion between physical pleasure and making love. Why is assumed that if or to enjoy yourself sexually it has to be making love? Have you've never heard about great sex without making love?Just wondering..........

Perhaps some of us men can be confusing at times.

For me I can only have great sex when I truly like a person, both physically and mentally.
I have had an appointment where an escort was exquisite looking and had glowing reviews.
For me we didn't connect, not her fault or mine, so no great sex for either of us on that occasion.

So personally I can only enjoy great sex with someone 'I make love to'.
It may only be make-believe for an hour, but during that time I treat that escort as my lover!
I will listen to her, be attentive to her and respect her wishes and desires, and in doing so achieve my ultimate satisfaction.

That's what great sex is all about.

[JessicaJessy]

Perhaps some of us men can be confusing at times.

For me I can only have great sex when I truly like a person, both physically and mentally.
I have had an appointment where an escort was exquisite looking and had glowing reviews.
For me we didn't connect, not her fault or mine, so no great sex for either of us on that occasion.

So personally I can only enjoy great sex with someone 'I make love to'.
It may only be make-believe for an hour, but during that time I treat that escort as my lover!
I will listen to her, be attentive to her and respect her wishes and desires, and in doing so achieve my ultimate satisfaction.

That's what great sex is all about.

I actually think that this is more confusing for the ladies,than for you guys!

[Lucy Chambers]

I actually think that this is more confusing for the ladies,than for you guys!

No, I am not confused, just realistic. It can take me an hour of selfish contemplation to orgasm, I have neither the time or inclination to pursue that most of the time and I am very sure my clients would prefer to orgasm at some point

If your point is we should get it where we can find it, quite so. But I am also quite happy not to. A control thing perhaps? Perhaps I am getting old..

[JessicaJessy]

If your point is we should get it where we can find it, quite so.

This is a part of my point and i am trying to understand why some people wouldn't take it,not because they want to control it,but because they think they shouldn't take it,considering that they are not making love.I am very opened to opinions.
Oh,and lucy i am sure you are not confused at all.

[JAMESCORK]

Do you girls really ever orgasm with a client...

[n73]

[QUOTE=lucy chambers;375150]No, I am not confused, just realistic. It can take me an hour of selfish contemplation to orgasm,

So the Oscar goes to !!!!! Ya big Feckin actress ya, I've never been so insulted in my life !!!!