Confusion !!!!!!!!

[kelso]

there are so many variables its impossible to ensure both ppl have the maximum pleaseure
my advice is be confident, say to the girl what you would like, be respectful and enjoy urself, thats the reason u are there!!! and if you click or are with a girl you like and its mutual then its best of both worlds!

[kelso]

Yes. Not often, but if the are determined

lmao!!! ur setting us a challenge there girl!!!

[n73]

[QUOTE=lucy chambers;375150]No, I am not confused, just realistic. It can take me an hour of selfish contemplation to orgasm,

So the Oscar goes to !!!!! Ya big Feckin actress ya, I've never been so insulted in my life !!!!

[Morpheus]

On my thread about escorts expressing themselves, I've realized something. Some people are making a huge confusion between physical pleasure and making love. Why is assumed that if or to enjoy yourself sexually it has to be making love? Have you've never heard about great sex without making love?Just wondering..........

I can understand the confusion. Sex, good sex, maikng love, being in love....

I think the best sex ever (in my experience) is when two people are really in love and madly attracted to each other. The sex itself is passionate, exciting , desperate and covered by a whole vairety of positive strong emotions. This is what I think of when using the term 'making love'.

However, I think a lot of people may use the term 'making love' for sex thats gentle, communicative and where both parties are interested in pleasing each other (but where there isn't any real love involved). As disctinct to pure animalistic, lustful sex! Which incidentally can be fantastic (the animalistic, lustful sex...) and be really 'good sex'.

At the end of the day, we are all different. Each individual escort and client will have different views on what to expect out of an encounter. Hence the reason for the confusion or different opinions on the topic above (or so I think).

I have to be honest that I visit escorts for the lust factor. However, I love making a connection -which is my nature. I return to see an escort because of the connection (and of course the lust factor). The more times I see an escort the better the understanding and connection. And of course this makes for good sex because there's a mutual understanding of what we both want and expect (even though this has nothing to do with love).

On the point of an escort enjoying herself sexually with a client - I say"go girl!". It's something I'm working on and would love to return even a fraction of the pleasure that a lovely lady has given me.