Originally Posted by
lucy chambers
So, when I was growing up I was taught its more important to be interesting then pretty. Looks fade and an empty husk is just a husk. Men of course, tend to go for the latter and think about the former at leisure.
What is your take on it? Is it nice to be nice or not important at all?
Why one or the other? Why not both!
Seriously though I know what you are asking.
I, like most men (well I shouldn't really taint them all, as there are some good ones out there, just not me) am incredibly shallow and get all excited by a pretty girl.
If I don't fancy a girl, I'm never going to take it further romantically. However, the looks bit only goes so far, and its the girls personality that would make me really fall in love.
So in answer to your question - Yes, being nice is really important, and more important than physcial beauty in the long run. Beauty is important too but you know what - a bit of effort- make up ,nice dress and a nice smile and I'm smitten.
"Don't be reckless with other people’s hearts. Don't put up with people who are reckless with yours"
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