Personality versus Looks- you decide

[Sam Spade]

Well said Mark. But hip hip hooray for the 'lucky man'. I hate that guy!

Don't worry, there may be one or two 'lucky men' on this site already!

[carlos marvado]

Although personality is the most important element of an individual, men unfortunately are fickle creatures and their cocks usually rule the brain. Sad but true.

Not exactly a problem that I have. My cock is under control, but sometimes it tries to compete with my brain. It's a bit like Fianna Fail.......the big swinging cock from Offaly jumps up in fits and starts and then ejaculates all sorts of rubbish, but eventually the brains within the party will regain control........or Mary Hanafin will have the f**ker castrated.

But back to the ladies.......my cock says a certain beautiful black lady with a great body and super sex.......and my brain says a certain blonde lady with somewhat more to hold on to and a super personality........I think a threesome is called for.

[OnlyMe]

Initial attraction is based on looks only, personality only comes into it for a lasting relationship.

Although personality is the most important element of an individual, men unfortunately are fickle creatures and their cocks usually rule the brain. Sad but true.

The lucky man is one who can have a lady who is both gorgeous outside and more importantly beautiful within.
Unfortunately this is a rare lady.

If I had a choice based solely on beauty or personality - then personality would win every time.
A fool would say otherwise!

With the greatest of respect Mark, I agree with you if you are planning on getting married.
With renting, I choose a more shallow approach.

I do however find it interesting that as men experience life they appreciate a womans intellect, while up onto recently I really only looked at her knockers.

[Sam Spade]

With the greatest of respect Mark, I agree with you if you are planning on getting married.
With renting, I choose a more shallow approach.

I do however find it interesting that as men experience life they appreciate a womans intellect, while up onto recently I really only looked at her knockers.

Trust me, I still love looking at 'their knockers', the only thing is that so many ladies her are so well endowed, something has to separate them? (whatever you say - don't say knockers)

For me it has to be their personality and a connection between us, and it is this that brings on the experience to a new level, even 'with renting'.

By the way nice to speak with you again OnlyMe - hope you are keeping well?

[magicalman9357]

So, when I was growing up I was taught its more important to be interesting then pretty. Looks fade and an empty husk is just a husk. Men of course, tend to go for the latter and think about the former at leisure.

What is your take on it? Is it nice to be nice or not important at all?

Personality is a must. Been told by a few females that if it was looks they would not have given me a second glance but that my personality and actions were the winning factors. Unfortunately, I used to be too shallow and went for looks alone in the ladies. Not anymore though.

[Forrest]

Personality is a must. Been told by a few females that if it was looks they would not have given me a second glance but that my personality and actions were the winning factors. Unfortunately, I used to be too shallow and went for looks alone in the ladies. Not anymore though.

That sounds a bit harsh/blunt. Can't see that there would be any good reason to admit that to your face.

Physical attraction is usually what makes you approach a member of the opposite sex in the first place After that, it's about finding some mutual interests to develop and maintain a relationship, and that's were a good personality really helps.

[magicalman9357]

That sounds a bit harsh/blunt. Can't see that there would be any good reason to admit that to your face.

Physical attraction is usually what makes you approach a member of the opposite sex in the first place After that, it's about finding some mutual interests to develop and maintain a relationship, and that's were a good personality really helps.

Probably the way I phrased it sounds harsh but it was always said in a jokingly sort of way. Hope jokingly is a real word? C.G. will let me know for sure.

[Fitzy]

I always go for personality beauty is only skin deep.
I have gone out with some good looking girls and a lot of them no personality what so not out to have the Craic at all.
Going out with a girl with personality you will always have the Craic and I find she will always get on with everyone.
So Lucy in a nutshell I am a personality man beauty is in the eye off the beholder.

[Mousey]

So, when I was growing up I was taught its more important to be interesting then pretty.

But you are both!

[Lucy Chambers]

But you are both!

****Lucy faints****

Mousey, are you being sarcastic?