Do you think escorts should express themselves more?

[Alec Horan]

He was trying to stimulate my clitoris and is well known that if it's not done wright,it can be sore and very uncomfortable.

Got ya ....in that case you really had to sort him out.....hands up...I've done the same thing myself and needed direction as it were.....

[jacksparrow2010]

Yesterday,during one of my appointments something happened that made me think.During "the action" I've stopped for a second,suggesting my client that he is not touching me on the wright place,in the wright way.The reaction amazed me a bit.He felt so offended about me telling him he was not doing the things wright,saying that nobody complained before me about that.After a bit of chatting,things went just great.
I guess that most or some of the escorts don't communicate with people,don't express themselves and don't say what they do or don't like,so he was unused with this kind of behavior.
So what do you think,should escorts communicate more,or they should just close their eyes and wait for the time to finish,just not to "offend" the client's ego?
I've picked the first option,i prefer to say what i like,in a nice way,of course!Like this,things become better for everybody.

well i can see why the guy's might get the hump as some may just not like directions....
but i dont really mind a bit of direction ..lets face it guys the lady knows her body and what makes her feel good wayyyyy better than we do... even if we think we know we prob dont..lol

so if the lady likes something or dosent like another thing I rather know... as she can upskill me..
in a nice way of course.. as nobody wants to be made feel they dont know what there doing ...

Captain J...

[Bruno69]

I would say it's all in how you say it.

For example if you just guide his hand or whatever to the right spot and say 'that's better' and display instant satisfaction at the change, it be less distracting to the client.

Its down to judging the moment really. And that's not always easy.

You are clearly getting things right with most clients (myself included) so don't go changing your ways too much because of this.

[Clint Plywood]

I think that this can be potentially difficult situation for an escort when it arises. Yes the guy is paying for her time and while that might seem to imply that he can do what he wants I personally don't think that it does or should do. We all enter into these liaisons on the basis of mutual respect at the very least.

I know from a personal point of view that it is as important for me to feel that the pleasure I get from the occasion is reciprocal and I love to feel a woman responding to my stimulation. I would have no problem if an escort wanted to 'direct' me in a particular way and in fact would really appreciate the advice as it would communicate to me that she is enjoying herself as well. We are all individual after all and there are as many ways to enjoy sex as there are people in my book. That my 2pence worth.

[dave1dave]

I think It's great that you would lend a guiding hand so to speak. I would always welcome feedback, anything that makes the time more pleasurable for both people is always a big plus.
As for virtual school ? I think I'd prefer to stick with one on one lessons.
It would be like doing an online course to learn how to drive !

[nedman]

I am always willing to take direction and advice from a lady, i think it is helpfull. Believe me taking advice form jessy is a good idea, as you will reap the rewards. I have found that in my opinion Jessy ( the only lady worthy of a review to date) always gives respect so deserves respect." You learn something new everday if you want to". Looking forward to my next lesson

[nick2010]

Yesterday,during one of my appointments something happened that made me think.During "the action" I've stopped for a second,suggesting my client that he is not touching me on the wright place,in the wright way.The reaction amazed me a bit.He felt so offended about me telling him he was not doing the things wright,saying that nobody complained before me about that.After a bit of chatting,things went just great.
I guess that most or some of the escorts don't communicate with people,don't express themselves and don't say what they do or don't like,so he was unused with this kind of behavior.
So what do you think,should escorts communicate more,or they should just close their eyes and wait for the time to finish,just not to "offend" the client's ego?
I've picked the first option,i prefer to say what i like,in a nice way,of course!Like this,things become better for everybody.

I think it depends on the escorts personality how to conduct they appointments, some are comfortable to express whatever they think, anothers will prefer to be discreet and sort things in different way. Neither are right or wrong.
I would never tell my clients what to do, usually I will ask them what they would like to do, but that is just me, as I wouldn't like to pay for something and have being told what I should do to satisfy somebody else.
At the end of the day it is not all the clients aim to please the escorts ...
Of course in a uncomfortable situation I will suggest to change position or to do something different, I have no hesitation to say if they insist to do something that is hurting me, but I make sure the way I will say will not put them off.
But I also agree no one escort should have pain while they are working. That's about respecting a woman, and each one choice how to deal with the situation in the way they prefer.
I do agree escorts must communicate more, things improve to everybody, but I think must be a regular client mine to me feel comfortable to say anything and really depends of the client.

[Lucy Chambers]

Well, I have given this some thought. There isn't really room in an appointment for my libido, to be honest. It has to be about the clients needs, or time and concentration can and will be lost. I also think that this is how I separate my private life from my professional life, obviously the pursuit if pleasure is far more important in my private life, its mine.

There are however, some clients for whom your pleasure is pivotal for their enjoyment of the appointment. For these clients I will take time to show them what is effective. I certainly don't fake orgasms, its a waste of time.

[nick2010]

Well, I have given this some thought. There isn't really room in an appointment for my libido, to be honest. It has to be about the clients needs, or time and concentration can and will be lost. I also think that this is how I separate my private life from my professional life, obviously the pursuit if pleasure is far more important in my private life, its mine.

There are however, some clients for whom your pleasure is pivotal for their enjoyment of the appointment. For these clients I will take time to show them what is effective. I certainly don't fake orgasms, its a waste of time.

Agree with you 100% ... (wish I could express myself with few lines and so well said just like you I'm your fan ... ha ha ha ;-)

[JessicaJessy]

Why is everybody talking about pleasing?I never wait for a client to please me,i try to please him,but if he does it,than even better.What i am talking about is situations when an escort feels uncomfortable or even sore with what he is doing to her,she should say that or just stay there like an object that has been bought from a supermarket,just because he is the one that payed?As we,like escorts,learn every day from our clients reactions and behavior,would be a great advantage for some clients to learn from our advices and experience.And not for us,for escorts,but at least for their personal lives.