Personally and no offense meant to anyone, but it strikes me as a wee bit egotistical to be offering lessons to the rest of us poor mortals!
Just because one is a client does not mean he/she is bereft of sexual prowess.
Personally and no offense meant to anyone, but it strikes me as a wee bit egotistical to be offering lessons to the rest of us poor mortals!
Just because one is a client does not mean he/she is bereft of sexual prowess.
nick2010 (22-01-11)
Last edited by JessicaJessy; 22-01-11 at 00:40.
There is no offence and there is not a guide,is just a personal opinion based on personal experience.I didn't wanted to make it on open forum,because is not a thing that everybody would be interested in so being a blog,doesn't "bother" anybody.Who want's to read it,it will,but it won't pop up always.Beside that,being a blog remains a bit more organized,doesn't move from a subject to another.Is each one's choice if want's to read it or not.
Morpheus (22-01-11)
"Don't be reckless with other people’s hearts. Don't put up with people who are reckless with yours"
JessicaJessy (22-01-11)
dannyboy10 (22-01-11)
With the widespread use of txtspk these days, I generally ignore spelling and grammar, but since we're giving lessons here, in that context it's spelt 'right'.is not touching me on the wright place,in the wright way.
Having that said, your initial post can be interpreted in two ways. I initially interpreted it as a client doing something that you could get more pleasure from if done slightly differently, but it was later clarified that he was doing something that was hurting you.
In either case, I think you should let him know, but in a very different manner. If he's hurting you, then by all means, shout STOP, push him away, or hit him over the head with a frying pan - whatever it takes to get him to stop. Unless you've listed BDSM in your favourates, you're under no obligation to let him hurt you.
If there is something he could be doing better, that would be more pleasurable for you ( and ther is nothing wrong with any of us enjoying our jobs ), then maybe something more tactful, but in either case its to both your advantage for him to know.
JessicaJessy (22-01-11)