PM for appointments what are your opinions?

[JessicaJessy]

I only book via PM those ladies who are very difficult to get through by phone.
I further used this method to arrange further appointments with escorts I have seen before.

I did arranged to meet an escort via PM a while back for our first appointment.
During this appointment she did admit to being very worried about meeting me as I was a regular poster.
Now everybody knows I am not a TR and only a recent member of this forum at that, but I believe she felt under pressure in some way 'to perform', which I felt uneasy about.

This made me rethink the PM system, which is why I now restrict it's use.

A telephone appointment can be made by any 'Joe Bloggs', and the escort can relax and give you her genuine service.

Personally,i am less comfortable if i don't know who is the person beside me.I have to be more careful if i don't know who i've opened the door for.I've met every kind of ppl in my "career" and i can tell you that are a lot of crazy ones out there.So trusting the one that is in my bedroom is a priority for me!

[dannyboy10]

If somebody it takes advantage,is because the girl let's him to take advantage.I mean,a review is not the end of the world.It is truth that is very important,but not everything stops there.If somebody gets a bad review and thinks is not accurate,the boards are opened,and no matter if the reviewer is TR or not,it can be proved that he was not fair!

Fair enough Jessica but I put this senario to you.

You have just started working and have two reviews from unknown clients.
You get a pm from a well eastablished Trusted Reviewer making an appointment.
During the appointment the client makes reference to reviews on several ocassions.
The time has run over and there is no sign of the Client leaving.
Now the choice, do you ask him to leave and risk the review will be fair or do you allow it to run well over time in the hope of a positive review?

I know what you are saying in relation to rebuttal on the review system but a new girl rebutting an established member will always favour the guy.
Also having being tossed out after the 60 mins the reviewer can say what he likes about the Lady as it is a subjective opinion he is voicing beauty is in the eye of the beholder and all that! So the Lady gets the bad review not for the reasons stated on the review but because she did not entertain the run over time bit!

[Lucy Chambers]

This also comes down to the escort. I give the same service to any client, little badge or not. And they will all be leaving at the same time.

[dannyboy10]

This also comes down to the escort. I give the same service to any client, little badge or not. And they will all be leaving at the same time.

I know that Luc. But you and Jessica are in the same position as being EI Idols that need not fear any man!

[JessicaJessy]

Fair enough Jessica but I put this senario to you.

You have just started working and have two reviews from unknown clients.
You get a pm from a well eastablished Trusted Reviewer making an appointment.
During the appointment the client makes reference to reviews on several ocassions.
The time has run over and there is no sign of the Client leaving.
Now the choice, do you ask him to leave and risk the review will be fair or do you allow it to run well over time in the hope of a positive review?

I know what you are saying in relation to rebuttal on the review system but a new girl rebutting an established member will always favour the guy.
Also having being tossed out after the 60 mins the reviewer can say what he likes about the Lady as it is a subjective opinion he is voicing beauty is in the eye of the beholder and all that! So the Lady gets the bad review not for the reasons stated on the review but because she did not entertain the run over time bit!

There is always a "nice" way to make somebody leave.I would make him leave in such a way,that he could find impossible to complain about.And i can tell you that this happened to me with a TR that never reviewed me,being established.I suppose he couldn't write a bad review,because he didn't had genuine reasons and he didn't write a good one,because i didn't let him overstay,only few minutes,because we've had a very interesting chat,but not hours,how he is used to.

[Experienced Punter esq]

I know that Luc. But you and Jessica are in the same position as being EI Idols that need not fear any man!

dont let this turn into another Lucy Chambers Appreciation thread...

[dannyboy10]

Jessy and Lucy are giving good replies, but as Danny has said you are both well established, confident, professional ladies.
It would be nice to get a viewpoint from someone with say, single figure reviews.

But keep posting Luc! I get butterflies whenever I see your avatar!

[punterminator]

I have done it the odd time but tend not to.
Ladies build up an opinion of you based on your reviews and posts, my board persona is completely different to my punting persona which is completely different to my real life persona.

[Lucy Chambers]

dont let this turn into another Lucy Chambers Appreciation thread...

Gosh, wouldn't that be awful

Fine, I will duck out.

[punterminator]

Personally,i am less comfortable if i don't know who is the person beside me.

See my above post.... I would argue that you can't get to know a person through their on-line persona. I know that there are people here who live their entire lives through these boards but they are in a minority.

Remind me, did I tell you who I was when we met? I think I may have..