wallets...

[Bambaataa]

I once accidentally handed a girl 250euro instead of 200 and the girl promptly noted the error and gave me back the extra 50 -- most girls are trustworthy IMO.

[Areeya]

I always have the cash in a thank you card. It just seems the right way to do it.
Keeps it from beeing a business arrangement, and to be fair to the ladies I`ve met, its never been opened in front of me, always when I`m away for my shower. Professionalism and respect is a 2 way street. Very recently the envelope was still unopened when I was leaving.

I prefer this ...but I once had an experience with a guy leaving fake notes in an envelope, I did not check, as I thought it was rude, and only found out when it was too late.

So girls as nice as this is...Be extra carefull !!!

Kisses

[OnlyMe]

Just curious if you have ever been stolen by an escort or if it is just what you expect from one?

Personally I think the escorting job is a bit like nursing. It takes a particular personality.
That personality is basically a caring honest person.
World wide escorting, always a complete idiot, never dipped once.

[Sam Spade]

Just curious if you have ever been stolen by an escort or if it is just what you expect from one?

Cant speak on behalf of warmcome.

For me, never had anything stolen, nor would I expect any escort to steal from me.
Personally I put a lot of trust in an escort, and would not be with her unless I did.

Trust must exist between both parties:-
the escort must trust the client to be respectful, gentle, kind and not to be a total bastard (difficult for some men);
the client must trust the escort to exercise her discretion and skill to deliver what he the client desires.

Not an easy task for either party, but perhaps thats where the anticipation lies.

[warmcome]

Just curious if you have ever been stolen by an escort or if it is just what you expect from one?

Jasmine, punting over 25yrs on and off.
Once when I was trying to do a duo, I seen a hand come in from the door (not Ireland)
and try to get in my jacket near the door-stop! this answers you're question.

Going to a known appartment block is a mugging risk-so €400 in wallet is a needless risk.

I'm not big on trust though-even if you're pretty!

[Sam Spade]

I once accidentally handed a girl 250euro instead of 200 and the girl promptly noted the error and gave me back the extra 50 -- most girls are trustworthy IMO.

I didn't have change one day, so placed £180 in an envelope.
To my horror the escort was going to give me £10 change - had to stop her, before we both got embarrassed!

[OnlyMe]

Cant speak on behalf of warmcome.

For me, never had anything stolen, nor would I expect any escort to steal from me.
Personally I put a lot of trust in an escort, and would not be with her unless I did.

Trust must exist between both parties:-
the escort must trust the client to be respectful, gentle, kind and not to be a total bastard (difficult for some men);
the client must trust the escort to exercise her discretion and skill to deliver what he the client desires.

Not an easy task for either party, but perhaps thats where the anticipation lies.

I was going to say agreed, but
"not to be a total bastard (difficult for some men)"
Heh, am I wrong in thinking this should be the odd man?
Am I wrong in thinking this is an ocassional man?
This nearly warrants a new thread?

Am I wrong?

[Jasmin]

Jasmine, punting over 25yrs on and off.
Once when I was trying to do a duo, I seen a hand come in from the door (not Ireland)
and try to get in my jacket near the door-stop! this answers you're question.

Going to a known appartment block is a mugging risk-so €400 in wallet is a needless risk.

I'm not big on trust though-even if you're pretty!

Personally I couldn't care less how much money my clients have in their wallets, I wont try to persuade anyone to stay longer than they planned (if I saw they have the money) neither I am going to take what is not mine, it is how I was raised, it is not because I am working as an escort that I changed my principles.
I am sorry to hear about your experience, certainly once you have a bad experience you become more carefull.
I don't expect clients to trust me, as they don't know me (same here, I dont know them) however I just dont like if they let me know that they dont, it breaks the mood completely

[Johnson]

Just curious if you have ever been stolen by an escort or if it is just what you expect from one?

Only my heart, Jasmin....

[Lincoln]

That's the best option. It saves both parties from an embarrassing moment

I am completely confused now. I know my background in punting is pretty old school: Inner-city brothels with tough (but gorgeous!!) women who let you know where you stood as soon as you walked in the door.

In the modern escort era I asumed 2 or 3 or 4 crisp new fifties politely handed to the lady without any fuss or preamble was the correct etiqutte and if it became a regular thing then the money could change hands before during or after a punt...

Now I'm not sure if saying a heartfelt thank you for a lovely time is acceptable!!

Can anyone clarify this??

Hi Mademoiselle, and how are you this fine evening??
Lincoln