wallets...

[Sam Spade]

I have nearly always brought a little present to an appointment but always have the cash in my pocket. If asked for it I hand it over or if not i leave it on the dresser or something. I would find it weird handing over an envelope and her checking it. (I am not meeting someone from the council looking for planning permisson). And then if she does not check it, I would be wondering if she is thinking "That envelope bettert not be full of monopoly!".

I've seen around 22 escorts over the past four months, established and new (I'm trying to cut down). At no time have any of them counted the money in my presence. Most leave the room with the envelope, others (those that I have seen before), leave the envelope and gift intact on the table.

Problems I am sure do arrive with counting. I always triple check the amount I leave and I know the amount is correct.
If at any time in the future I was informed it was short, I would never argue the point but had over the requested money.
If this would ever happen I would never again see that escort.
I perhaps would be soft in handing over additional money, but she would be the looser in the long term.

[Sam Spade]

chocolates? cards? how do you guys treat non-escorts?
I give them the money as quick as I can-and everyone chills. thats what its about.
probably dont get half what superior punters do though

Its nice to bring a gift, whether something small or special to them.
It shows that you have thought about the liaison, more than just the physical part.

If I book an appointment by phone I usually just bring the money, unless its a special time of the year, for example Christmas, New Year etc. then I make a special effort.

If I make an appointment by PM, I sometimes ask the girl her favourite perfume, or sometimes ask her three innocuous questions for example her favourite colour, perfume, music etc. I will then select the gift to bring with me.

Unfortunately it does not guarantee a good meeting as sometimes two people are just not compatible.
Not her fault or yours, it just happens. The best we can do is bring something more to the meeting to make it as comfortable and pleasurable for both parties.

[warmcome]

Its nice to bring a gift, whether something small or special to them.
It shows that you have thought about the liaison, more than just the physical part.

If I book an appointment by phone I usually just bring the money, unless its a special time of the year, for example Christmas, New Year etc. then I make a special effort.

If I make an appointment by PM, I sometimes ask the girl her favourite perfume, or sometimes ask her three innocuous questions for example her favourite colour, perfume, music etc. I will then select the gift to bring with me.

Unfortunately it does not guarantee a good meeting as sometimes two people are just not compatible.
Not her fault or yours, it just happens. The best we can do is bring something more to the meeting to make it as comfortable and pleasurable for both parties.

Mark, you're a gent and there is room for all of you to do it just as you like.

I'm a smart looking bloke and i'm hiring girls since I could. Iv'e brought girls fish nets and stuff,
but the thought of gifting them (other than the plain cash) is inappropriate for me.

To me, the girls are girls I could/should be able to get off with regardless.
If society was less fucked up.

[Morpheus]

I am a bit insititutionalize and follow the same protocol. Bring a present, correct money in open envelope and a spare envelope of cash for extra time. When I remove my jacket it's laid on bed and I place the envelope beside jacket. The lady always says I'll hang your jacket up. Transaction complete. Then it's just fun fun fun

Very smooth Mr.Bond! I like your style.

[Sam Spade]

I am a bit insititutionalize and follow the same protocol. Bring a present, correct money in open envelope and a spare envelope of cash for extra time. When I remove my jacket it's laid on bed and I place the envelope beside jacket. The lady always says I'll hang your jacket up. Transaction complete. Then it's just fun fun fun

We always hate the money part of the transaction, for me I just like to get it out of the way.

Well Legswideopen - even James Bond could learn a few tricks from you!

[Legswideopen]

what is the cloak and dagger bit? not buyin' crack in a busy Mc Donalds.

It's all part of the game warmcome lol

[Morpheus]

Its nice to bring a gift, whether something small or special to them.
It shows that you have thought about the liaison, more than just the physical part.

If I book an appointment by phone I usually just bring the money, unless its a special time of the year, for example Christmas, New Year etc. then I make a special effort.

If I make an appointment by PM, I sometimes ask the girl her favourite perfume, or sometimes ask her three innocuous questions for example her favourite colour, perfume, music etc. I will then select the gift to bring with me.

Unfortunately it does not guarantee a good meeting as sometimes two people are just not compatible.
Not her fault or yours, it just happens. The best we can do is bring something more to the meeting to make it as comfortable and pleasurable for both parties.

I'm getting an inferiority complex here! Thank God your are punting in Belfast Mark and not in Dublin. If you set the standard down here, I'll soon be a persona non-grata with the girls. I've thought of bringing gifts but never have the imagination or organization. I'll have to learn a thing or two from you.

[Jasmin]

I've been punting since a teen! I learnt early on-don't let them see wedge.When I go for a punt now I put what I intend to spend in my back pocket,
usually a couple of crisp €50s.

Do others carry on like this? Girls-tell us about it?

Just curious if you have ever been stolen by an escort or if it is just what you expect from one?

[dark-knight]

I am probably cold about this but I walk in to the room jacket off, pull my wallet out 1 2 3 4 50s. Paid and counted job done. Then I enjoy myself. Presents never wouldn't even think about it its not appropriate in a business transaction. Tip regular at christmas.

[BACMAN36]

Agreed. But I still put the right amount in a little card, after all you are only paying for time and what might or might not happen is something else altogether.