Humor is a great way to break down barriers between people in any situation. For a one on one encounter between two strangers, you can never script things but there are always opportunities.
Case 1 with a young Russian lady in Barrow Street. We have agreed to start with a shared shower and, as she is concerned about keeping her long blond hair dry, I have handed her the small plastic and spring steel hair-clip that any former boyscout would take to a punt. As she squeezes the spring to open it, it slips from her fingers and flies through the air towards me. I throw myself on the floor behind the bed and scream "no, I don't want pain."
Case 2 with a Kazakhstan student in Germany, we embrace in the hallway of her hotel room. She is wearing a tummy exposing t-shirt and jeans. In the mirror behind her, I can just see the waistband of a thong by the top of her low slung jeans so I reach down and hook it up with my finger admiring the sight in the mirror. She looks over her shoulder at the mirror to see what I am looking at.
In both case, there we are, two strangers just moments into meeting each other reduced to silly giggles. No barriers between us, completely relaxed to be together and as a result, a lot of shared pleasure.
I know that escorts are always a little nervous when they meet a new client. Partly of course out of fear that this one may be some psycho freak but also because of worry that the client may actually not find them appealing at all. Anything that can set up a relaxed atmosphere at the beginning is good.