Serious Dilemma

[jacksparrow2010]

Thats fair enough Capt. J, but all of the above has been done. Yes, I am being selfish, in that I like a fit body, but so would she.... Im just concerned that her desire to stay fit and healthy is way less than mine. Ive done all the encouragement I can do, but she just doesnt seem to give a shit whether she's fit / healthy or not. So without coming out with it blatantly, I dont see what I can do... Hence why Im telling everyone in here....

Show me one man who hasn't had 2nd thoughts leading up to getting married ??? I dont believe its a reflection on my love / lack of for her. If the roles were reversed, I would totally see her having the same concerns as me...

A woman's point of view would be good here ?????

yep most have second thoughts but about weight?... come on it is shallow.. but if its gona be a problem then I honestly dont know wat u can do!.. she isint going to be happy if u say it..
maybe if its going to be a life long problem for you then its time for you to move on... as even if she lost some now it may go back on in time and what then?...

I do sometimes laugh at the way guys on here talk down irish ladys for being bad in bed and being overweight ect ect... and alot dont seem to look at themselfs.. Ireland must be full of george clooneys they way some talk down the ladys..

Captain J...