Serious Dilemma

[Fitzy]

Any of the fine looking girls out there like to get involved it just seems to be blokes would love to hear a womans point of view.

[anitasizzle]

Maybe she doesn't want to be with you, and gained weight with the hopes that you'd not find her attractive, and leave-you might not be all that-looks aren't everything:p But tell her how you feel, about her weigh, and I bet she won't want to be with you, and you can go your merry way.

There's some men out there who like their women big, so they don't have to worry about ccompetition, so don't worry, she'll get over it, TELL HER!

[Morpheus]

After reading the post " Does the missus give you a blowjob or VV?", the responses back all seem to be the same. . . weight gain & loss of libido after "I do".

Im getting married in the summer, to a girl who used to be fairly skinny, but over the last couple of years has steadily put it on, so that now there is a healthy overhang and horizontal ripples (about 3 -4) when she wears a tight top.

To me, its a major turn off. I keep very fit, and if I say so myself, am in pretty good shape. She loves my body, and seeing me naked. I only wish the opposite was true.

But to bring up the subject of her weight, and how Id prefer it if she was skinny(ier), is like saying you dont believe in the holocaust. Not good. To me, keeping you body in shape is very important to me, I will never be fat, and expect the same of my partner.

What should I do ?
Be brave, and come out with it straight, before we get married ?
Or accept the inevitable, Irish women are fat, and after a couple of kids, it'll all go south anyway ?

Thanks,

wp

I feel for you dude. It's one of those damned if you do, damned if you don't situations.

Although I think Fitzy's advice is the best - try and bring up the subject indirectly ie. getting her to join you in the gym etc..

Its so typical though of life -you love this girl , want to marry her and she's let herself go physically. I have an ex that I stupidly let go, and she' still fit as fuck , 8 years later! (If I'd married her, Murphys law would be that she be a balloon by now!)

I'll admit it - I'm very shallow, which is one of the many reasons I'm single. I trust you have more substance and will do the right thing.

[hornylimerick]

After reading the post " Does the missus give you a blowjob or VV?", the responses back all seem to be the same. . . weight gain & loss of libido after "I do".

Im getting married in the summer, to a girl who used to be fairly skinny, but over the last couple of years has steadily put it on, so that now there is a healthy overhang and horizontal ripples (about 3 -4) when she wears a tight top.

To me, its a major turn off. I keep very fit, and if I say so myself, am in pretty good shape. She loves my body, and seeing me naked. I only wish the opposite was true.

But to bring up the subject of her weight, and how Id prefer it if she was skinny(ier), is like saying you dont believe in the holocaust. Not good. To me, keeping you body in shape is very important to me, I will never be fat, and expect the same of my partner.

What should I do ?
Be brave, and come out with it straight, before we get married ?
Or accept the inevitable, Irish women are fat, and after a couple of kids, it'll all go south anyway ?

Thanks,

wp

just resign yourself to the fact your fucked!!

your fucked if you do, fucked if you don't, my advice from someone who's been there, done that, GET OUT WHILE YOU STILL CAN!!

run for your life

[Fitzy]

[QUOTE=hornylimerick;366519]just resign yourself to the fact your fucked!!

your fucked if you do, fucked if you don't, my advice from someone who's been there, done that, GET OUT WHILE YOU STILL CAN!!

run



Life is funny your never fucked think positive things always work out.

[hornylimerick]

[QUOTE=Fitzy;366560]

Life is funny your never fucked think positive things always work out.

things might work out in the end, doesn't mean you dont get fucked along the way, things do work out but not always the way you think they will

[Fitzy]

[QUOTE=hornylimerick;366561]

things might work out in the end, doesn't mean you dont get fucked along the way, things do work out but not always the way you think they will

Life has it's ups and downs if your single our married that's what makes it so exciting look on the bright side.

[Notatwork]

She a women that is struggling with her weight even before the kids come along,your are probably looking at beach whale by time she has 2 kids,if you think your unhappy now wait till then!you wont be unhappy you will be going fuckin crazy with anger thinking how the hell did i get stuck with this!!but ahh she is a lovely person,yeah right some consolation for the next 30 years for ya!
You might be thinkin i am in a similar situ,i am not,my missus is an ex aerobic instructor till works out,better bod than 98% of the girls on here after a couple kids and she probably 15yrs older,and i am still not happy with her,good catholic girl(another story),but honestly lad dont marry this girl,its a receipe for disaster,if you do it will cost ya a fortune in divorce never mind the messin up it will do the kids heads,you stay with her be prepared to be spending a small fortune on the ladies.your choice buddy.

[Lucy Chambers]

She a women that is struggling with her weight even before the kids come along,your are probably looking at beach whale by time she has 2 kids,if you think your unhappy now wait till then!you wont be unhappy you will be going fuckin crazy with anger thinking how the hell did i get stuck with this!!but ahh she is a lovely person,yeah right some consolation for the next 30 years for ya!
You might be thinkin i am in a similar situ,i am not,my missus is an ex aerobic instructor till works out,better bod than 98% of the girls on here after a couple kids and she probably 15yrs older,and i am still not happy with her,good catholic girl(another story),but honestly lad dont marry this girl,its a receipe for disaster,if you do it will cost ya a fortune in divorce never mind the messin up it will do the kids heads,you stay with her be prepared to be spending a small fortune on the ladies.your choice buddy.

And on that cheerful note...enjoy the wedding

[herodotus]

Irish women are not fat... some are some aren't.

But, if you dont find her attractive now then you should tell her to shape up.

Much nicer than waiting till she has loads of baby fat, a screaming baby and you arrive home to tell her that you are shagging all around you because she will not look after herself.

After reading the post " Does the missus give you a blowjob or VV?", the responses back all seem to be the same. . . weight gain & loss of libido after "I do".

Im getting married in the summer, to a girl who used to be fairly skinny, but over the last couple of years has steadily put it on, so that now there is a healthy overhang and horizontal ripples (about 3 -4) when she wears a tight top.

To me, its a major turn off. I keep very fit, and if I say so myself, am in pretty good shape. She loves my body, and seeing me naked. I only wish the opposite was true.

But to bring up the subject of her weight, and how Id prefer it if she was skinny(ier), is like saying you dont believe in the holocaust. Not good. To me, keeping you body in shape is very important to me, I will never be fat, and expect the same of my partner.

What should I do ?
Be brave, and come out with it straight, before we get married ?
Or accept the inevitable, Irish women are fat, and after a couple of kids, it'll all go south anyway ?

Thanks,

wp