Favourite extra?

[dr love]

Some ladies charge extra for kissing which is my favourite. Hope it's not just me. Really I am not that ugly.

We believe you honest to jaysus we do magic .: doc

[Forrest]

Some ladies charge extra for kissing which is my favourite. Hope it's not just me. Really I am not that ugly.

The beauty comes from within, Magicalman.
The ladies are not as shallow as us guys, thank f**k, otherwise I wouldn't be

[Sam Spade]

Magicalman - you have hit it on the nail for me as kissing is one of my top favourites as well.
For me, I feel much closer to the lady this way than with my cock in her vagina (sorry for graphic content).

I find it very difficult to make an appointment with a lady who does not kiss - most other things I don't care about, but not this!

Personally I cannot feel a connection with a lady who does not kiss - too cold and business like!!!!

[Bodkin]

By extra I mean anything other than sex or f/k

Me - owo, cim & facials but only if the girl is really into it

The short answer is that I don't think I'd ever (again) contact an escort that doesn't advertise french kiss & I have a strong preference for those that permit foot worship. Imagine the frustration of meeting a lady with impossibly cute feet & not being allowed to touch or taste ... I've been there. Of course I understand, everybody has their limits, some people just have very ticklish feet, others just don't want wet toes. I operate on the "Your body, your rules" principle.

More generally I've never really understood the fascination with cim, facials, swallowing or any particular act of that nature. In fact I find the thoughts of all three fairly repugnant & about the furthest thing from what I'd consider sexy as you could possibly get. Different strokes ...

It all strikes me as some kind of to-do list that you have to check off: "Things I've seen in porn that I want to repeat." I've never approached a meeting by planning to work my way through some menu of activities. For me it's more free form: whatever happens happens & that's the joy of it. It seems to me that if I went in looking for acts X, Y, & Z then it really would feel like a service. This is in no way a criticism of how others have their fun, it's just the way I feel about it.

I definitely concur with the sentiments expressed by Forrest & Dr Love - what makes an experience great for me is maybe different every time but it's always about a sense of mutual enjoyment, not "really good acting" on her part or anything like that, just sometimes you leave feeling like it was good fun for all concerned & that's great. Maybe we are kidding ourselves, maybe it doesn't matter.

That said, when I first started out I did have some half-baked notion about this being an opportunity to meet different types of ladies, i.e., ladies from all over the world; there may still be an aspect of that lurking in the back of my mind but it's not so much of an issue as it once might have been.

I am reminded of a scene from a Woody Allen movie (Play it again Sam). Woody's character has just been dumped by his wife & his best friend (Tony Roberts) is trying to console him - he says (something along the lines of) "Cheer up, you're free. You can have affairs with beautiful women of every class, creed, and colour." To which Allen's character responds (in his classic self-pitying whine) "Yeah, but you get tired of that."

[Forrest]

The short answer is that I don't think I'd ever (again) contact an escort that doesn't advertise french kiss & I have a strong preference for those that permit foot worship. Imagine the frustration of meeting a lady with impossibly cute feet & not being allowed to touch or taste ... I've been there. Of course I understand, everybody has their limits, some people just have very ticklish feet, others just don't want wet toes. I operate on the "Your body, your rules" principle.

More generally I've never really understood the fascination with cim, facials, swallowing or any particular act of that nature. In fact I find the thoughts of all three fairly repugnant & about the furthest thing from what I'd consider sexy as you could possibly get. Different strokes ...

It all strikes me as some kind of to-do list that you have to check off: "Things I've seen in porn that I want to repeat." I've never approached a meeting by planning to work my way through some menu of activities. For me it's more free form: whatever happens happens & that's the joy of it. It seems to me that if I went in looking for acts X, Y, & Z then it really would feel like a service. This is in no way a criticism of how others have their fun, it's just the way I feel about it.

I definitely concur with the sentiments expressed by Forrest & Dr Love - what makes an experience great for me is maybe different every time but it's always about a sense of mutual enjoyment, not "really good acting" on her part or anything like that, just sometimes you leave feeling like it was good fun for all concerned & that's great. Maybe we are kidding ourselves, maybe it doesn't matter.

That said, when I first started out I did have some half-baked notion about this being an opportunity to meet different types of ladies, i.e., ladies from all over the world; there may still be an aspect of that lurking in the back of my mind but it's not so much of an issue as it once might have been.

I am reminded of a scene from a Woody Allen movie (Play it again Sam). Woody's character has just been dumped by his wife & his best friend (Tony Roberts) is trying to console him - he says (something along the lines of) "Cheer up, you're free. You can have affairs with beautiful women of every class, creed, and colour." To which Allen's character responds (in his classic self-pitying whine) "Yeah, but you get tired of that."

If that's the short answer.................
Great reply and I agree with quite a lot of what you say, Bodkin
I did the 'kid in a sweet shop' at the beginning and have met ladies from more than 30 different countries, but I always looked at it with the same attitude. Show respect and you will get respect. Some of the ladies I have met should get Oscar nominations, such was the quality of their 'performance', as most times it seemed really genuine.

[wthing77]

what is owo

[Rayden]

what is owo

Oral without (condom).

[wthing77]

oh thank you for that, some terms i dont get, that would be worth it

[Derry lad]

My favourite extra is one you get without asking

EXACTLY!!!
remember getting owo without asking or even thinking it was possible. It ended cim coz I lasted about 3 seconds but she was really sound about it.

[wthing77]

oh cim. cum in mouth i am learning