Originally Posted by hornylimerick
By extra I mean anything other than sex or f/k
Me - owo, cim & facials but only if the girl is really into it
The short answer is that I don't think I'd ever (again) contact an escort that doesn't advertise french kiss & I have a strong preference for those that permit foot worship. Imagine the frustration of meeting a lady with impossibly cute feet & not being allowed to touch or taste ... I've been there. Of course I understand, everybody has their limits, some people just have very ticklish feet, others just don't want wet toes. I operate on the "Your body, your rules" principle.
More generally I've never really understood the fascination with cim, facials, swallowing or any particular act of that nature. In fact I find the thoughts of all three fairly repugnant & about the furthest thing from what I'd consider sexy as you could possibly get. Different strokes ...
It all strikes me as some kind of to-do list that you have to check off: "Things I've seen in porn that I want to repeat." I've never approached a meeting by planning to work my way through some menu of activities. For me it's more free form: whatever happens happens & that's the joy of it. It seems to me that if I went in looking for acts X, Y, & Z then it really would feel like a service. This is in no way a criticism of how others have their fun, it's just the way I feel about it.
I definitely concur with the sentiments expressed by Forrest & Dr Love - what makes an experience great for me is maybe different every time but it's always about a sense of mutual enjoyment, not "really good acting" on her part or anything like that, just sometimes you leave feeling like it was good fun for all concerned & that's great. Maybe we are kidding ourselves, maybe it doesn't matter.
That said, when I first started out I did have some half-baked notion about this being an opportunity to meet different types of ladies, i.e., ladies from all over the world; there may still be an aspect of that lurking in the back of my mind but it's not so much of an issue as it once might have been.
I am reminded of a scene from a Woody Allen movie (Play it again Sam). Woody's character has just been dumped by his wife & his best friend (Tony Roberts) is trying to console him - he says (something along the lines of) "Cheer up, you're free. You can have affairs with beautiful women of every class, creed, and colour." To which Allen's character responds (in his classic self-pitying whine) "Yeah, but you get tired of that."
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