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    Default Why do some married women lose interest in sex?



    The high prevalence of sexual desire complaints in women have led a number of researchers and theorists to argue for a reconceptualization of female sexual desire that deemphasizes the drive model and places more focus on relational factors. Lacking in this effort has been a critical mass of qualitative research that asks women to report on their causal attributions for low desire. In this study, the authors conducted open-ended interviews with 19 married women who had lost desire in their marriage and asked what causal attributions they made for their loss of sexual desire and what barriers they perceived to be blocking its reinstatement. Three core themes emerged from the data, all of which represented forces dragging down on sexual desire in the present sample: (a) institutionalization of the relationship, (b) over-familiarity, and (c) the de-sexualization of roles in these relationships. Interpersonal and intrapersonal sexual dynamics featured more prominently than did relationship problems in women's attributions. The authors discuss the results in terms of clinical implications in the psychosocial component of treatment for hypoactive sexual desire disorder.

    And they say it's only men who like variety?? I heard it's from the ingredients in the wedding cake.

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    Erm ... what are you saying there exactly ?

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    Jaysus, I am lost myself...

    I hope you cut and pasted that from somewhere cause if you didnt I fear you may have swallowed a dictionary over the last 24 hours....

    Quote Originally Posted by Banjo View Post
    Erm ... what are you saying there exactly ?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Franken996 View Post


    The high prevalence of sexual desire complaints in women have led a number of researchers and theorists to argue for a reconceptualization of female sexual desire that deemphasizes the drive model and places more focus on relational factors. Lacking in this effort has been a critical mass of qualitative research that asks women to report on their causal attributions for low desire. In this study, the authors conducted open-ended interviews with 19 married women who had lost desire in their marriage and asked what causal attributions they made for their loss of sexual desire and what barriers they perceived to be blocking its reinstatement. Three core themes emerged from the data, all of which represented forces dragging down on sexual desire in the present sample: (a) institutionalization of the relationship, (b) over-familiarity, and (c) the de-sexualization of roles in these relationships. Interpersonal and intrapersonal sexual dynamics featured more prominently than did relationship problems in women's attributions. The authors discuss the results in terms of clinical implications in the psychosocial component of treatment for hypoactive sexual desire disorder.

    And they say it's only men who like variety?? I heard it's from the ingredients in the wedding cake.
    Oh no. another cut and paste fan. Women get bored the same reason men do. What started as Love has become Friendship.
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    Quote Originally Posted by lucy chambers View Post
    Oh no. another cut and paste fan. Women get bored the same reason men do. What started as Love has become Friendship.
    oh yeah hun!!!

    but this is a question 4 them-let's see the answers..
    Why married men over 35-40yrs old are crazy about 18 years old chicks??? lol


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    Quote Originally Posted by shirleyy View Post
    oh yeah hun!!!

    but this is a question 4 them-let's see the answers..
    Why married men over 35-40yrs old are crazy about 18 years old chicks??? lol
    What about us 47 year old men?

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    Quote Originally Posted by mark444 View Post
    What about us 47 year old men?
    even worse lol


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    Quote Originally Posted by shirleyy View Post
    Why married men over 35-40yrs old are crazy about 18 years old chicks??? lol
    I wouldn't know ... I haven't reached that ripe old age yet ! I'm still excited by the thrill of going to see an older woman. But not too old !

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    Quote Originally Posted by Banjo View Post
    I wouldn't know ... I haven't reached that ripe old age yet ! I'm still excited by the thrill of going to see an older woman. But not too old !
    Is it not strange, younger men going for older women,
    while older men going for younger ladies?

    We must have got mixed up somewhere along the way!

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    Quote Originally Posted by shirleyy View Post
    oh yeah hun!!!

    but this is a question 4 them-let's see the answers..
    Why married men over 35-40yrs old are crazy about 18 years old chicks??? lol
    simple they still have fit tight bodies un like our 30/40yrs old wives who have been raviged by childbirth.
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