Why do some married women lose interest in sex?

[Franken996]

I'm still hungover so forgive the sharp elbows

I love cut and paste. I often read them, usually look further and then get bored. Because it is someone elses view on something. I am more interested in yours.

Actually my observations broadly mirror the findings here- hence I made the OP to spark a debate.. which seems to have happened!

Seriously, my eyes glazed over before I got to the fifth word. I hate the lingo that is used in pieces like this. Lots of ologies and isms and god knows what else which serve only one function which is to try and make some rather banal and pretty self evident conclusion seem to be based on hard science.

By the way I was not being sarcastic, I was genuinely confused and the second line was an afterthought which was meant to be funny rather than sarcastic.

Sarcasm is the lowers form of wit afterall.

no worries- you'll have to give a dispensation to the likes of over educated clowns like myself

[charlottebabe]

simple they still have fit tight bodies un like our 30/40yrs old wives who have been raviged by childbirth.

So what happened to all you men who do not have tight fit bodies anymore? Don't tell me it was childbirth too?

[rover]

So what happened to all you men who do not have tight fit bodies anymore? Don't tell me it was childbirth too?

What a pleasure it would be to be a tight fit between your lovely tits Charlottebabe.

[Banjo]

Sorry I know this is someone going off the point.

But aren't we all mad when you think about it ? I mean civilisation. Or that which we call civilisation. As humans we've decided we're grand and important enough to invent things like law and order as opposed to chaos; families as opposed to everyone for themselves; education and economics as opposed to ignorance and greed.

Part of all that is monogamy. Yet here we all are, plainly shagging all round us. Mad !!

[Lucy Chambers]

Sorry I know this is someone going off the point.

But aren't we all mad when you think about it ? I mean civilisation. Or that which we call civilisation. As humans we've decided we're grand and important enough to invent things like law and order as opposed to chaos; families as opposed to everyone for themselves; education and economics as opposed to ignorance and greed.

Part of all that is monogamy. Yet here we all are, plainly shagging all round us. Mad !!

Monogomy has its place. I think those who punt are closer to monogamous than those who go for a drink after work with every office tart who wanders past. However those who choose to be unfaithful with escorts at least maintain their anonymity.

[Banjo]

It's clear that different people have different ideas about what monogamy is. Or to put it another way, different people have different definitions of what being faithful means, and what qualifies as being unfaithful. Some believe shagging someone other than your partner is being unfaithful, while for others a glance in the general direction of another person might qualify as being unfaithful.

The point I was trying to make was that the human race invented that sugar coated topping we call civilisation. It isn't a naturally occurring property of the universe from the time it came into being. I guess it was designed over time from a very idealistic set of values that gradually evolved and became to be considered desirable. And while we've spent all our existence as a race coming up with all these fantastic things that supposedly make us better, if you only scratch the surface and look underneath the shiny exterior you will find websites like this and people like me .... among many other things of course. I couldn't see De Valera ever endorsing it like.

[herodotus]

From conversations with female friends I gather that they simply do not get enought attention from their partners and this has a direct impact on their relationships, physical and otherwise.

Basically, the main complaint is that the man will sprawl on teh couch watching tv or playing computer games or reading or whatever and then expect the wife or girlfriend to be ready for a quick in and out before shut eye.

It is not difficult to see the problem but guys dont realise that women need attention. It is not that men dont also need attention but it is different and not related to sex.

[hornylimerick]

It's simple it's boredom! Even a 29 year old like me can understand that.

We start taking them for granted nit giving them the attention we used to, all they get from us is nithing really just spend their time looking after us and cleaning up our mess, so in return they get disinterested and bored. Sex becomes the last thing on their minds.....

[Lucy Chambers]

It's simple it's boredom! Even a 29 year old like me can understand that.

We start taking them for granted nit giving them the attention we used to, all they get from us is nithing really just spend their time looking after us and cleaning up our mess, so in return they get disinterested and bored. Sex becomes the last thing on their minds.....

In my opinion, it isn't just about being bored. I think that sex in marriage starts to become a pawn, something with a price. Where once our partners pleasure was our own, it is now our hardship. The problem is we lose our partner, they become our cell mate through a series of misunderstanding and disbeliefs. Friendship is the very best you can hope for, when you marry. In my opinion.

[oneeyedreilly]

I know men are thick but that takes the biscuit!

These are true. Another time..

Me ''I want you to come all over my face and breasts, every single drop slithering and sliding....''

Himself ''Could you get pregnant?''

I laugh everyday, at least once