( I'm presuming you're not being sarcastic & I'll give you benefit of doubt..) & I'm no killjoy- just a pragmatist..
You really don't understand the risks in this game? ( as they relate to your Identity.. whatever about the other stuff)?? Let me mention a few things... ( & I may be new to this board but let's just say I've been in this game for a while & spent a bit of time on another punters board..).
It's rather easy when you've been reading/participating on these type of Forums for a while to develop a cavalier attitude towards our hobby here in the moist underbelly of the net..
First up- there's your extended circle- even if you don't give a shit, what will yer mammy & your brother in law who's the local primary school headmaster be feleing when it's exposed you're a monger? ( presuming you're married & have an agreement with your wife..).
Next up- are you aware that for all the gray legal status & the fact the guards don't really give a shite most of the time, don't lose sight that what you're doing can really bit you in the arse, years later.
I could go on & on, but the specter of blackmail is always a concern in this arena...
I take risks all the time, but even I don't go diving in shark infested waters without a cage
Presuming he's married is a pretty big assumption.
It doesn't make sense to presume something that would make his statements even more unbelievable (according to you).
Anyway, what are they going to do with your first name? They might as well have no name.
Last edited by nicegirlsarenice; 01-01-11 at 23:32.
Hi there,
I would surmise the poster isn't married, I was merely giving him BOD. Your second statement involves circular logic based off an assumption of something I said- kind of ironic?
Q:What are they going to do with your (real) first name-
A: for the most part absolutely nothing.. but if you get a wackjob, (in a society as small as IRL with about two degrees of separation) who triangulates it with your approx age, physical characteristics & anything you may be lax enough to let slip here.. well, they may as well have your bank a/c # & pin. LOL
BTW- this goes in both directions & is why escorts never use thier real names- go figure
No, you presumed he was married.
"( presuming you're married & have an agreement with your wife..)"
This line of conversation doesn't interest me, don't expect me to reply back.
I always ask for a name when booking an appointment.
It doesn't matter to me if you give me a fake name or not. But it's more comfortable and politer for me to call you something and not just Hey, Dude, Hunny, Love, Horny etc etc.
Jessie