This is why I have so much respect for Bill Clinton. The BC answer is always so easy. It depends on what you mean by "trust".Originally Posted by sexy cindy
Let me say a little more.
First of all, in what follows, "you" means any escort that I visit.
As a client, you can trust me. I will speak nicely on the phone, I will turn up on time. I will have the money ready, I will not haggle over prices, I will tell you exactly what I desire and I will never do anything that you tell me you do not like.
If I tell you what I think of the time that I spend with you, you can trust that too. If I tell you that your breasts are absolutely perfect you can trust me. I am surprised at the number of ladies who respond to that comment by saying that they believe that I just tell everyone that. I do not.
You want more? Can you trust me regarding relationships with you?
You can trust me completely. I am not available to you and I never will try to do anything to make you think that I am. But then it gets tricky. When I am with you, for those few minutes, you are the only woman in the whole world. I am devoted to you, I want no other. I would actually be incapable of wanting another. It really is the method acting school of punting.
Now, we are getting out on the thin ice. Most escorts get this. I'm not going to name names but really good punts usually go this way. The lady understands that I really like her very much as an escort, the fact that a client is treating her well and is clearly very aroused by her is often a turn on. The resulting sex is wet, sticky and orgasmic for us both. Then I get cleaned up and dressed and leave. The goodbye hug and peck on the cheek are as platonic as if they were with my best friend's wife with him standing at her side. Mutual thanks and that's it.
Some escorts don't get this. They think that I mean it for real and they are worried about a client falling in love. It can get a bit awkward and I do not like to unsettle a lady but I try to make it clear at the end of the punt.
Then there are the ones who don't get the act and actually seem to like the idea and want to take things further. My first draft of this paragraph contained quotes from conversations that I have had that make it utterly clear that this kind of thing can happen. I have removed them as the need for respect for those escorts outweighs the need to illustrate the point so all that I can say is, please believe me, this is real.
It does happen from time to time and you can still trust me. I will not lead you on.
But I can see how it can go differently. It is a real boost for a man to spend time with a stunningly hot woman who is a lot less than half his age and who becomes aroused and has multiple climaxes when they are together. Then, she starts to hint that there could be more than an escort client relationship there. How many men can resist the pursuit of that fantasy?
Clearly some can. I suspect that a fair proportion of the regular client posters here have found themselves in this position and have behaved correctly.
There have been a few, well documented cases of client escort relationships moving on to true romance but they are not common.
My advice to any escort who found herself in that position would be to go and get her cynicism detector upgraded to one that goes up to 11 and not just 10.
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