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    Quote Originally Posted by sharkskin View Post
    If you post from an account labeled Moderator, without any disclaimer that it is a personal opinion, then it looks to me as if you are making the post in your moderator role.



    I thought that I had made myself perfectly clear in my earlier post Carlos. Sorry if I had not. You, as an E-I Mod made a post from your E-I Mod account, with no statement that it was a personal opinion. You wrote that it would not make good financial sense for escorts to turn down clients who just turned up even if it would mean not being available for a booking that had been made earlier.

    That looks to me as if you are using your E-I awarded status to tell E-I advertisers that double booking is the way to go.

    E-I may be the largest site in these parts but it is not the only one. Indeed, one site recently started up and is offering big discounts on advertising rates. I note that some former E-I advertisers have moved their business over there.

    So, while E-I Mods continue to use their E-I Mod status to encourage E-I advertisers to make double bookings, I will take my business to advertisers on other sites.

    That really is a solid five hundred a month that is lost to escort advertisers here.

    I accept that I will have less choice and probably fewer punts and that some escorts on other sites will double book. At least I will not be attempting to visit escorts who are advertising on a service that encourages them to double book.
    I'd just like to make a few points of clarification regarding the above post.......some of these points have already been dealth with by subsequent posters.

    Firstly as thehighwayman stated, forum moderators continue to use the posting user profile that they initialy registered when they became site members. We have'nt registered seperate E-I Mod accounts, nor have these been assigned to us. It would in fact be against E-I rules to register a secondary user profile unless it was for use solely as a comedy profile. Retaining our user names has benefits. Community and Reviews moderators are first and foremost members of the E-I Community who have undertaken an additional role to try an improve the site (Reviews) or make it (Community Section) a more enjoyable place for those who decide to participate. I think the vast majority of regular users of the site understand the role of the moderators and have no difficulty in differenciating between posts submitted in a moderating capacity (probably <10% of posts) and those submitted as site members (probably >90% of posts). Moderating powers can only be exercised by moderators or E-I staff, so there can be no confusion when such powers (editing, moving, merging, deleting threads or posts, issuing "friendly" warningss, "official" warnings, infractions or banning members) are exercised, that they have to be in ones capacity as a moderator. Beyond that, there is the option of posting a Moderator's Comment or editing a thread to include a Moderator's Comment. I think I instituted these to provide clarity and so that people would not be left in any doubt in which capacity I was posting.......they're big, they're red........they're always short and sweet and to the point and leave no room for misunderstandings.

    The benefit to the members of us not moderating anonymously, is that everybody knows which site member they are dealing with, we can't be accused of doing things we would not underwise do it we did not have anonimity and it probably makes us more accountable and act more responsibly. So the E-I Community Moderator under the user name does not indicate an E-I Mod account; it just indicates who is a mod.

    The next point is in relation to my stating that it would not make good financial sense for an escort to turn away a client with money in wallet. I think we are all agreed, that escorts are not not-for-profit sole traders. Talking on a phone and waiting in front of a television set for somebody to show, do by themselves not represent income/profit.......a real client outside their doors does. I don't advise escorts to double book........it's not my business to direct them how to operate their own business, or what services they should offer, or what prices they should charge, but having spoken to enough of them, I can understand why they would operate that way. Equally, I would not tell an escort who had a client outside her door who had arrived 30 minutes late, that she should send him away because she is expecting somebody with a booking in 10 minutes. Nobody knows if the second client will turn up unless it is maybe a regular or a person who has made a booking by pm. If I were to make such a suggestion, the escorts would laugh me out of the place.

    It's not as if this problem exists only in this business. How often do people have to wait in a doctor's or dentist's surgery because some procedure has taken longer then scheduled or an earlier patient arrived late for an appointment, or somebody suddenly appeared with an emergency? Similarly, how often do plumbers, electricians etc not show up on time for appointments, or fail to show up at all even? Such unfortunately is the real world.

    Finally, while you may choose to take your business to escorts who advertise on other sites, are you suggesting that escorts who advertise on these sites operate any differently to those who advertise on E-I, or that an escort who advertises here and elsewhere will treat a client any differently depending on which site he saw her advert that resulted in his booking?

    Escorts work the way they want to work; they organise their business to suit themselves, and if this means turnover/profit maximisation, then they seem to be pretty much in step with the capitalist system. I doubt if anything that I would say, either as a member of the community section or a community moderator would make a blind bit of difference as it would get swallowed up amongst all the comments and opinions profered in other posts.

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    Just to nip this now
    1 Everyone can tell between mod opinons and E-I policy

    2 E-I have no say on how escorts conduct their business
    All E-I is , is basically the Irish golden pages for escorts
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    this thing about double booking ok I get the fact that escorts are doing this to take account of timewasters/guys not turning up but double booking is motivated by greed too lot of escorts do this to maximise their earnings nothing worse than getting to her apartment & getting wind of the fact that she has just er finished with someone else...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Doozer View Post
    Just to nip this now
    1 Everyone can tell between mod opinons and E-I policy

    2 E-I have no say on how escorts conduct their business
    All E-I is , is basically the Irish golden pages for escorts
    is that just your opinion doozer or you speaking as a mod there, sorry but its hard to tell the difference from your post

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    Quote Originally Posted by dublin24 View Post
    is that just your opinion doozer or you speaking as a mod there, sorry but its hard to tell the difference from your post
    Bit of both really Dublin 24
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    Quote Originally Posted by Doozer View Post
    Bit of both really Dublin 24
    see as SS says it can be very difficult to tell when the mods post what role they are playing a mod or a poster never sure if it is EI policy or just another posters input

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    No I think SS was unaware that we give our own opinions on the boards and are not always spouting E-I policy
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    Quote Originally Posted by Doozer View Post
    No I think SS was unaware that we give our own opinions on the boards and are not always spouting E-I policy
    i think his point was more that it is difficult to tell when it is your "own opinions" or "spouting E-I policy" as per your own post above

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    Interesting to see the different perspectives on this subject from the escorts and the clients. I certainly don’t condone Escorts making double bookings, not at all, but I now have a better insight as to why it happens. Personally I am lucky, it has only happened me once.

    At the end of the day we’re all human and sometimes shit happens. At the very least a phone call or text from either the client or escort to explain. A little bit of respect goes along way.

    Everyone’s circumstance is different, but the thing is for me, when I choose an escort, I don’t do it at short notice. I need to plan my time in advance. And since the time where I was stood up, once I have made the booking, whether it be by PM or phone, on the day I will keep in touch to let the escort know I am still OK and just before I head into Dublin, I will text again. This gives the escort every opportunity to let me know if something is up and she can’t make it.

    If after all that I make the trip into town and I am then stood up, jesus I would be pissed off for wasting 2 or 3 hours of time travel + hanging around,

    I don’t go into town with a list of backup numbers, so the only consolation is that I go home with the money still in my pocket and it will go to a more deserving and trust worthy escort another day.

    I have been very fortunate with the escorts I have chosen and have learned my lesson from my 1 bad experience. I hope it doesn’t happen again
    Thank you all the ladies I had pleasure of meeting. Forever grateful for the memories

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    What would be horrible is an escort checking to see what a guy looks like before accepting. The worst she can apparently get as a review is an "n/a" in that instance, and if she gets a lot of clients she won't care if he doesn't come back. The escorts are obviously hoping for hot clients, and if they can pick and choose and lack scruples...
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