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    Default Anyone got any thoughts on this issue

    I was just looking at RicFlairs retirement post and before I go on I would just like to wish Ric well with his new living situation. Best of luck lad, you seem like a decent bloke.

    So anyway I know this has probably been discussed before but I wonder how other poster/punters feel about the conversation you would inevitably have to have if you were to embark on a new relationship after many years of visiting escorts.

    Personally I don't see how it would be possible to not disclose what your sex life and intimacies had consisted of if she was going to be your partner and soul mate into the future.

    And it kind of blows my mind to think that in disclosing this information I would literally not be able to count or even recall all the punts, all the activities, all the different girls and women....

    I, being single, am more immediately concerned with finding someone to share my life with but the spectre of the thought of that conversation looms at night sometimes, how vulnerable I would be leaving myself to do that. I torment myself with fantasies that she would just hold me and say its ok, I love you, you are brave and honest, its ok.....

    But I'm not too sure that would be what would happen. I only know if I was with her and I loved her I would have to talk about this part of my life. And explain WHY this was how I had lived my life so far...

    So....if anyone has any thoughts in that regard I'd surely appreciate hearing 'em
    lincoln

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lincoln View Post
    I was just looking at RicFlairs retirement post and before I go on I would just like to wish Ric well with his new living situation. Best of luck lad, you seem like a decent bloke.

    So anyway I know this has probably been discussed before but I wonder how other poster/punters feel about the conversation you would inevitably have to have if you were to embark on a new relationship after many years of visiting escorts.

    Personally I don't see how it would be possible to not disclose what your sex life and intimacies had consisted of if she was going to be your partner and soul mate into the future.

    And it kind of blows my mind to think that in disclosing this information I would literally not be able to count or even recall all the punts, all the activities, all the different girls and women....

    I, being single, am more immediately concerned with finding someone to share my life with but the spectre of the thought of that conversation looms at night sometimes, how vulnerable I would be leaving myself to do that. I torment myself with fantasies that she would just hold me and say its ok, I love you, you are brave and honest, its ok.....

    But I'm not too sure that would be what would happen. I only know if I was with her and I loved her I would have to talk about this part of my life. And explain WHY this was how I had lived my life so far...

    So....if anyone has any thoughts in that regard I'd surely appreciate hearing 'em
    lincoln
    Two words buddy.... Say naaatin....lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by JAMESCORK View Post
    Two words buddy.... Say naaatin....lol
    whistle and walk away ffs

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    Hey, maybe discretion would be the better part of valour

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    Lol that sounds about as sensible as telling her that you fancy her sister !

    Try it first, if she reacts ok to that then go for it !

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    Test the waters so to speak, that idea is not without its merits

    Quote Originally Posted by dave1dave View Post
    Lol that sounds about as sensible as telling her that you fancy her sister !

    Try it first, if she reacts ok to that then go for it !

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    Default Well lads....

    I don't know where that thread came from, I guess I took too many oestrogen tablets this morning.

    I apologise for sounding like a sap, conduct unbecoming and all that...

    I'm off to bed to ah......relax with my thoughts....

    night y'all

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lincoln View Post
    I don't know where that thread came from, I guess I took too many oestrogen tablets this morning.

    I apologise for sounding like a sap, conduct unbecoming and all that...

    I'm off to bed to ah......relax with my thoughts....

    night y'all
    Don't forget if you wank too much you should probably come clean about that too!

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    hmmmm....its pretty messy when I come....

    later folks


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    Don't forget if you wank too much you should probably come clean about that too!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lincoln View Post
    hmmmm....its pretty messy when I come....

    later folks
    Yes go to bed,

    You have a lot to talk about tomorrow !

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