H ha ... I can relate to this and have thought it through...
Solution... book anonymously and never say who you are unless you think it is safe....
Problem solved......
But to play in your game I will answer your poll.
Do you continue with the appointment and say nothing
Do you tell her the truth and apologise and leave without paying anything.
Do you tell her the truth and apologise and leave but pay her something for wasting her time.
Do you tell her to put the kettle on and pay her for a chat and a game of hide the thimble.
H ha ... I can relate to this and have thought it through...
Solution... book anonymously and never say who you are unless you think it is safe....
Problem solved......
But to play in your game I will answer your poll.
It happened to me once I took a chance on photos that weren't verified she looked amazing in photos.
I like to take a chance sometimes it pays off.
To cut a long story short she wasn't the girl in photo far from it there was other factors as well.
I was honest with the girl and left.