really pissed off!!!!

[Rayden]

really?
it's important that he agreed to come in about one hour,and as he got sooner I replyed to wait 20 min more..it's that important??

I was speaking more in general. Not exactly sure what happened in your situation.

[dr love]

Shirleyy if I really wanted to see a escort a few more mins would not matter at least you had the good manners to txt him he's lose judging by your positive reviews to date. Lol. Doc

[herodotus]

I dont think reviews such as this should be allowed.

If a time was agreed and the guy turned up and was asked to wait and extra half and hour then it would be worth mentioning in the review but from what you say and from what he says in the review I dont think that he had much to complain about.

[Shirley Joy]

Shirleyy if I really wanted to see a escort a few more mins would not matter at least you had the good manners to txt him he's lose judging by your positive reviews to date. Lol. Doc

that's my point!!! mannerless would be if I wouldn't text..but some people are doing this as revenge..

[mountainmile]

I will be brief ....
The guy who wrote Shirleyys latest review clearly has some sort of issues in my opinion.
Ive always found her courteous,punctual,respectful and can assure anyone wondering ,that apart from being stunningly sexy she couldnt ever be considered by any genuine reviewer as anything other than someone that would remain at the top of their wish list.And lastly,the guy who gave her that latest review should be licking his wounds right now as he has Noooo idea what he missed out on had he organised his own timing a little better.

[Lucy Chambers]

N/A reviews have to be allowed or clients could not state it wasn't the lady in the pictures. It does seem unfair, but I guess it wouldn't if you were the person duped when wasn't the girl in the pictures.

Don't worry about it Shirleyy, just put your rebuttal in.

[sharkskin]

I understand that you are unhappy shirleyy but, without commenting on your situation right away, there is a place for such reviews.

I have had a number of bad experiences where I turned up on time for an appointment only to have one of the following:

* Nobody picked up the phone.
* Somebody answered and told me that I would have to wait.
* Somebody answered and told me that I could see her friend instead.
* Somebody answered and said, "I'm still on the LUAS."
* Somebody answered and said, "I'm not in Dublin yet. I'll call you."

If you look at a lot of escort profiles, you will see cases where a lady has a dozen reviews and almost half report that she did not keep the appointment.

Clients do need to be able to post such reports.

Personally, I have given up on waiting because for me, this has never resulted in a good experience. To make myself clear, it has never resulted in me seeing the lady. That initial request to hold on for just five minutes too often becomes a request to call back in an hour.

Often too, this kind of thing indicates that a supposedly independent escort is actually working for an agency. The agency accepts all appointments and figures that they can delay or switch if they cannot subsequently arrange for the escort to make the time which the client agreed with the agency.

The legal position is also worth considering. If I visit an independent escort who is working by herself, neither party is breaking the law. If I accept an invitation to wait for five minutes, I am now committing the offense of loitering in a public place for the purpose of prostitution. If you read the forums, you will note that, every few months, there is a posting from a client who was moved on by the guards. These are not folks who were looking for a street girl these are clients who were in areas like D2 docklands surrounded by apartment buildings every one of which will have contained at least one escort apartment. Consider how few clients post here and you will see that this must be a daily occurrence.

Of course, I could go and find a cafe somewhere but that is still a public place and I would end up nervous and would not have a good time.

To get back to your own situation shirleyy, you have loads of good reviews and just one N/A. That is not going to put anyone off coming to see you.

[Shirley Joy]

I have had a number of bad experiences where I turned up on time for an appointment only to have one of the following:

* Nobody picked up the phone.
* Somebody answered and told me that I would have to wait.
* Somebody answered and told me that I could see her friend instead.
* Somebody answered and said, "I'm still on the LUAS."
* Somebody answered and said, "I'm not in Dublin yet. I'll call you."

I agree with everything but the 2nd..u may have to wait the escort to fix her hair,make-up..etc..what's wrong in this?
anyway,about this experience I learned something..I'll never book anybody untill I'm done..but this "reviewer" of mine was waitin' outside more that half hour before 2pm(the meeting hour) and when I replyed ("I still need time") with all my respect wasn't my fault he was on my street such a longtime before,and I suppose 15-20min walkin'in the park-garden (just in front of my building) shouldn't be sooooo annoying..
doesn't matter anymore..that's smelling like revenge and anger,nothing more!!! and he wanted DOMINATION?? loooool..this type of punt cannot be submissive 4 sure lol

[sharkskin]

I agree with everything but the 2nd..u may have to wait the escort to fix her hair,make-up..etc..what's wrong in this?

I am with you 100% there shirleyy you should have as much time as you need to prepare but of course, it is reasonable for me to expect that you know how much time that is.

For example, to compare two recent attempts to punt:

Sharkskin called escort A at 12:15...

S: "Can I come to see you this afternoon?"
A: "Yes, when?"
S: "12:45"
A: "Too soon, can you come at 13:00?"
S: "Yes, no problem."

At 13:00, I turned up and had a lovely punt.

Sharkskin called escort B as 17:15... (no no no, not the same day, OK?)

S: "Can I come and see you this evening?"
B: "Yes, when?"
S: "18:00"
B: "Sure. Call me when you get here."

At 18:00, B was not ready and told me that I had to wait - outside the most infamous punting spot in D4. I left.

but this "reviewer" of mine was waitin' outside more that half hour before 2pm(the meeting hour)

Well, 100%, that is his problem and not yours. Your comment to his review did not make it clear to me that this was the case. It can be that a journey takes less time than anticipated but in that case the client can slow the journey or call the escort early and say something like: "It's me I got here earlier than I expected, you can call me as soon as you are ready."