is it possible to love an escort?true love? honestly..

[dannyboy10]

Christ am i the only one that see the smiley face!

[dannyboy10]

I have one or two clients I am deeply fond of. They know who they are

Have you ever had stronger feelings for a client and if not why not?

If I am not been to nosey

[JAMESCORK]

I like El Gordos statement...you know it is really a game between escort and client, unlike real relationships persay. But both have to be mature about it. Its kinda nice to play the game of LURVE, but lets be realistic. Both parties are taking what they need and want from it. The crucial thing is to realize when the game hits that danger line .... for either party.

But as I have said, it can be fun and fulfilling playing the game...

[Sam Spade]

I suppose not..maybe somebody can like ,appreciate an escort,maybe feel butterflyes into the stomach when looking her,but true love 4 an escort without asking to quit the bussiness it's impossible..

I believe it could be very easy to fall deeply for an escort.
After all the escort is very knowledgeable and skilled at her job and knows how to treat a man.
If she was not she would not be a good escort.

Some men like myself can easily get carried away and start to loose sleep and dream of things that could have been.
However like most adults we must separate fantasy with reality.
Trust me we do feel butterflies, tremble when we hold and caress our ladies.
But we always have to draw the line when we leave this fantasy word.
After all fantasy is what it is.
If we treat this as a fantasy then we are all protected, after all there is nothing worse than a client falling in love with an escort and making a fool of himself. Not good for anyone.

And if a person did fall for an escort, it would be so very difficult not to ask the escort to quit.
I for one would find it very difficult to love someone who continued to escort.
It would cause nothing but pain, suffering and arguments for both parties :-(

[JAMESCORK]

I believe it could be very easy to fall deeply for an escort.
After all the escort is very knowledgeable and skilled at her job and knows how to treat a man.
If she was not she would not be a good escort.

Some men like myself can easily get carried away and start to loose sleep and dream of things that could have been.
However like most adults we must separate fantasy with reality.
Trust me we do feel butterflies, tremble when we hold and caress our ladies.
But we always have to draw the line when we leave this fantasy word.
After all fantasy is what it is.
If we treat this as a fantasy then we are all protected, after all there is nothing worse than a client falling in love with an escort and making a fool of himself. Not good for anyone.

And if a person did fall for an escort, it would be so very difficult not to ask the escort to quit.
I for one would find it very difficult to love someone who continued to escort.
It would cause nothing but pain, suffering and arguments for both parties :-(

You are 100% correct here mark. I have fallen in love in my day and by consequence have fallen further…as in to the ground…lol.

Experience after pain helps a lot…

[McLooking]

Is it just me, or has everyone forgotten to say anything about the "man" also giving up punting?
It's a two way street, who's to say if the Lady gives up her job, that the Gentleman would not continue to see other Ladies behind her back! Why could they not both continue their previous ways, but still love each other.
I'm unbearable to live with, so won’t happen with me 

[Violette]

If someone did say they loved you and you loved them would you not want to quit Shirley?

What does love and income have to do with the other? Why would I want to quit a perfectly well paying job, to sit on the sofa mooning over some man, who when the endorphins wear off will be sniffing around sooner or later for another distraction. I can not tell you how many of my clients tell me, "Don't get me wrong, I love my wife....." Right before handing over the money.

[dannyboy10]

What does love and income have to do with the other? Why would I want to quit a perfectly well paying job, to sit on the sofa mooning over some man, who when the endorphins wear off will be sniffing around sooner or later for another distraction. I can not tell you how many of my clients tell me, "Don't get me wrong, I love my wife....." Right before handing over the money.

We I think are not referring to cheating husbands but to two singlr people. Then can it happen.
I can not imagine any man wanting his partner to sleep with other men.
There is no way I could.
It is more complicated than just saying it is a job.

[Violette]

We I think are not referring to cheating husbands but to two singlr people. Then can it happen.
I can not imagine any man wanting his partner to sleep with other men.
There is no way I could.
It is more complicated than just saying it is a job.

But at then end of the day if we are honest we ladies are doing a job and providing a service, the fact that it is clouded by deluded punters and unrealistic escorts mistaking niceness for love, doesn't change the fact that it is a job and must be treated as such. It is a personal job I will grant you that.
For me it is about my income, unless the person I fall in love with is in a financial position to keep me in the style I have become accustomed to based on my own earnings, I just don't see the point of engaging in the frustrations and stress I know will come when the financial discussions come up.

[dannyboy10]

But at then end of the day if we are honest we ladies are doing a job and providing a service, the fact that it is clouded by deluded punters and unrealistic escorts mistaking niceness for love, doesn't change the fact that it is a job and must be treated as such. It is a personal job I will grant you that.
For me it is about my income, unless the person I fall in love with is in a financial position to keep me in the style I have become accustomed to based on my own earnings, I just don't see the point of engaging in the frustrations and stress I know will come when the financial discussions come up.

I think you had better start working in Dubai

Not many millionaires left in Ireland