is it possible to love an escort?true love? honestly..

[robijntje]

If you want to know if it is truly possible to truly love an escort for who she is, then you must ask the questions:

a) in how far do you know who she really is?

b) what is true love?

In general, an escort tells lies. I don't want to offend anyone, but the nature of the business requires you to lie. It can be about your age, your name, your land of origin to making up whole parts of your life, for those clients who want to know what kind of person is behind the escort. I'm not saying anyone here does, but I can imagine you do.

And the sweet, little things she tells you, that gives you the feeling she only tells you, what kind of guarantee do you have that she doesn't tell anyone else the exact same thing? Maybe she said those things half an hour before your visit, you don't know, and you will never know. So, in a sense, you will maybe never truly know the escort in question. What is the truth, what are the lies? With a good escort who knows what she's doing, you will never know.

Then, what is true love? This is different for everyone. Love is, however, always conditional: you have a series of criteria in mind that your ideal mate should possess. This happens on a subconscious level, meaning that you cannot control that. Escorts probably meet a lot of men that match their criteria, and vice versa, but then you use your conscious mind which action to take. Most will ignore it, deny it, but that works against them sooner or later.

For me, true love is loving the person with everything you have, the happiness and wellbeing of that person matters more than my own. If I would fall in love with an escort however (which can always happen, no one is made of stone), I would want her to have her own choice: continuing her work or leaving it. If she is smart, she doesn't leave on my or anyone's request, she leaves the business for herself, not for anyone else.

So that means she would continue her work. And therein lies the problem: I, personally, think I would not mind her sleeping with so many men, that is her work, just like my work is to lie to people on the phone, sometimes pissing them off for my own amusement. You have to see her work and who she is separately. It's not what you do that defines automatically who you are. I think I would have more problems with her telling other men what she tells me, I don't know what she does during appointments and maybe she would fall in love with someone else, leaving me behind broken hearted.

I use 'I think' because I don't know, and I can only suggest what it would be like. I'll get back to you when I have experienced it firsthand.

[robijntje]

Oh, and what would you guys do if you find yourself in love with an escort?

[JAMESCORK]

So that means she would continue her work. And therein lies the problem: I, personally, think I would not mind her sleeping with so many men, that is her work, just like my work is to lie to people on the phone, sometimes pissing them off for my own amusement. You have to see her work and who she is separately. It's not what you do that defines automatically who you are. I think I would have more problems with her telling other men what she tells me, I don't know what she does during appointments and maybe she would fall in love with someone else, leaving me behind broken hearted.

I use 'I think' because I don't know, and I can only suggest what it would be like. I'll get back to you when I have experienced it firsthand.

I dont think it is possible to truly love an Escort. But you can come close. Had a situation recently that I would meet with an escort after her work and just hang out watching TV cuddling on the couch etc. I was ok with the fact she was shaggin strange guys all day. The word LOVE was mention but in a flippant way. But your comment here strikes a cord, and it was for these reasons and a mature realisation that has caused it to tone down considerably. Its best to keep things professional.

[Westsidex]

I think I would have more problems with her telling other men what she tells me, I don't know what she does during appointments and maybe she would fall in love with someone else, leaving me behind broken hearted.

This is all your trouble. For starters its a job so what she does in appointments is for money. There is as good a chance of any girl ,escort or otherwise ,falling in love with someone else as its not all physical with women. Im blue in the face from telling guys this and if they just realised this it would save them soooooooooooooo much emotional trauma.

An escort i know said to me once and these are her exact words. "Its just sex". She said this like it meant absolutely nothing to her and it didnt either. Alot more comes into it other than just sex with women.

trust me on this one,
Westside.

[Forrest]

I suppose not..maybe somebody can like ,appreciate an escort,maybe feel butterflyes into the stomach when looking her,but true love 4 an escort without asking to quit the bussiness it's impossible..

I think it is possible for a client to fall in love(lust/infatuation) with an escort, and vice-versa.
But I would imagine that it would be a very rare situation where both fall in love with each other.
If both parties feel strongly enough about their feelings for each other, then it could work out, but they would need to be very strong mentally to deal with the lady's continued work in the industry.

[robijntje]

I dont think it is possible to truly love an Escort. But you can come close. Had a situation recently that I would meet with an escort after her work and just hang out watching TV cuddling on the couch etc. I was ok with the fact she was shaggin strange guys all day. The word LOVE was mention but in a flippant way. But your comment here strikes a cord, and it was for these reasons and a mature realisation that has caused it to tone down considerably. Its best to keep things professional.

That was possibly the best thing to do, however, I can imagine it must not have been easy. But on the other hand: escort or not, you don't know if she might have been the love of your life. Cliche, I know, but still... 'The One', if he/she exists, can come by without you realizing it, simply because you do not perceive it as such, you're blind to it, for several reasons.

I'm very probably just being naive, but what if 'The One' appears to exist between an escort and a client?

And use the word 'love' as much as possible, even with an escort. We use the word 'hate' so easily, but with 'love' it's always more difficult...

[Westsidex]

That was possibly the best thing to do, however, I can imagine it must not have been easy. But on the other hand: escort or not, you don't know if she might have been the love of your life. Cliche, I know, but still... 'The One', if he/she exists, can come by without you realizing it, simply because you do not perceive it as such, you're blind to it, for several reasons.

I'm very probably just being naive, but what if 'The One' appears to exist between an escort and a client?

And use the word 'love' as much as possible, even with an escort. We use the word 'hate' so easily, but with 'love' it's always more difficult...

By the way , i never believed in love at first sight. You grow to love a person.

a hanging around them time thingy,
Westside.

[robijntje]

By the way , i never believed in love at first sight. You grow to love a person.

a hanging around them time thingy,
Westside.

Love at first sight does exist, if you are a visual person and meet a beautiful lady, for example.

[robijntje]

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[magicalman9357]

I suppose not..maybe somebody can like ,appreciate an escort,maybe feel butterflyes into the stomach when looking her,but true love 4 an escort without asking to quit the bussiness it's impossible..

I had a very long relationship with an escort and loved her very much and believe the problem was that whilst she always said she loved me too I could not deal with the fact that other men were involved so never truly believed she loved me at all. So to answer the question yes I truly loved her but had to go for my own sanity.