is it possible to love an escort?true love? honestly..

[robijntje]

Oh, and what would you guys do if you find yourself in love with an escort?

[JAMESCORK]

So that means she would continue her work. And therein lies the problem: I, personally, think I would not mind her sleeping with so many men, that is her work, just like my work is to lie to people on the phone, sometimes pissing them off for my own amusement. You have to see her work and who she is separately. It's not what you do that defines automatically who you are. I think I would have more problems with her telling other men what she tells me, I don't know what she does during appointments and maybe she would fall in love with someone else, leaving me behind broken hearted.

I use 'I think' because I don't know, and I can only suggest what it would be like. I'll get back to you when I have experienced it firsthand.

I dont think it is possible to truly love an Escort. But you can come close. Had a situation recently that I would meet with an escort after her work and just hang out watching TV cuddling on the couch etc. I was ok with the fact she was shaggin strange guys all day. The word LOVE was mention but in a flippant way. But your comment here strikes a cord, and it was for these reasons and a mature realisation that has caused it to tone down considerably. Its best to keep things professional.

[robijntje]

I dont think it is possible to truly love an Escort. But you can come close. Had a situation recently that I would meet with an escort after her work and just hang out watching TV cuddling on the couch etc. I was ok with the fact she was shaggin strange guys all day. The word LOVE was mention but in a flippant way. But your comment here strikes a cord, and it was for these reasons and a mature realisation that has caused it to tone down considerably. Its best to keep things professional.

That was possibly the best thing to do, however, I can imagine it must not have been easy. But on the other hand: escort or not, you don't know if she might have been the love of your life. Cliche, I know, but still... 'The One', if he/she exists, can come by without you realizing it, simply because you do not perceive it as such, you're blind to it, for several reasons.

I'm very probably just being naive, but what if 'The One' appears to exist between an escort and a client?

And use the word 'love' as much as possible, even with an escort. We use the word 'hate' so easily, but with 'love' it's always more difficult...

[Westsidex]

I think I would have more problems with her telling other men what she tells me, I don't know what she does during appointments and maybe she would fall in love with someone else, leaving me behind broken hearted.

This is all your trouble. For starters its a job so what she does in appointments is for money. There is as good a chance of any girl ,escort or otherwise ,falling in love with someone else as its not all physical with women. Im blue in the face from telling guys this and if they just realised this it would save them soooooooooooooo much emotional trauma.

An escort i know said to me once and these are her exact words. "Its just sex". She said this like it meant absolutely nothing to her and it didnt either. Alot more comes into it other than just sex with women.

trust me on this one,
Westside.

[Forrest]

I suppose not..maybe somebody can like ,appreciate an escort,maybe feel butterflyes into the stomach when looking her,but true love 4 an escort without asking to quit the bussiness it's impossible..

I think it is possible for a client to fall in love(lust/infatuation) with an escort, and vice-versa.
But I would imagine that it would be a very rare situation where both fall in love with each other.
If both parties feel strongly enough about their feelings for each other, then it could work out, but they would need to be very strong mentally to deal with the lady's continued work in the industry.

[magicalman9357]

I suppose not..maybe somebody can like ,appreciate an escort,maybe feel butterflyes into the stomach when looking her,but true love 4 an escort without asking to quit the bussiness it's impossible..

I had a very long relationship with an escort and loved her very much and believe the problem was that whilst she always said she loved me too I could not deal with the fact that other men were involved so never truly believed she loved me at all. So to answer the question yes I truly loved her but had to go for my own sanity.

[MatureJane]

If a client told me he was in love with me. I would think he was just trying to get sex for for free. I wouldn't believe him.

[Forrest]

If a client told me he was in love with me. I would think he was just trying to get sex for for free. I wouldn't believe him.

Surely the only way a client could possibly expect to get 'sex for free' from you is if the feeling was mutual.
In any other circumstance, they would have to be totally deluded.

[Lucy Chambers]

If a client told me he was in love with me. I would think he was just trying to get sex for for free. I wouldn't believe him.

Now Jane, last time we talked you stated you did not think you knew what an escort was..am I now to take it you have joined the flock? Will we be seeing those mysterious pictures soon?

[El Gordo]

I suppose not..maybe somebody can like ,appreciate an escort,maybe feel butterflyes into the stomach when looking her,but true love 4 an escort without asking to quit the bussiness it's impossible..

Yes, it's possible. It's generally not a good idea, but it's certainly possible. Some serious problems:
- The guy is probably not falling in love with a real person, but with an idealised image. Even escorts who don't lie more than necessary will conceal a lot of the truth. That's not really dishonesty. A good escort knows that a client who asks "How are you today?" probably does not want to hear "Really crappy. My four year old back home is sick. My boyfriend is really getting on my nerves. Oh, and I almost forgot. My period just started yesterday and I'm worried my sponge may start leaking." So normally a client will only see a small part of an escort's life, and would probably freak out if he saw the rest.
- The guy may be a chancer looking for freebies. Even if he isn't, she will certainly think he is. Because that's what they usually are. So she's not going to trust him, if she has any sense, and he's not going to like that.
- He won't be able to recognise if she feels the same way. She almost certainly won't, but good escorts act as if they are attracted to their clients. That's part of their job.

In case anyone is wondering, this is what I've learned by observing other people, not from personal experience.