Originally Posted by
luther
Although I said I wasn't going to post on this again I do respect your reply and opinions and don't want you to think I'm simply ignoring you so I will reply to this section only with a little advice if I may........
Be very very carefull of your thoughs and feeling on this. You've said more in the section I've quoted from your reply that perhaps you know and I would say this is shaping your opinion on this subject more that you think, and puts you in the same boat as many many others......
Your lack of understanding of the actions of others is leading you to blame yourself in some way. Believe me, this will never ever ever get you anywhere, or at least nowhere good. I'm not here to preach to you, but I will tell you if this is the case you need to let it go, accept what happened happened and you are not to blame for the actions of others. This is a lesson hard learned, and even more difficult to accept and actually believe, but if I was to leave this forum now and never post again or give another piece of advice, I would gladly do so if you took it and accepted it. I know this is not easy, but if this is actually a problem for you and is shaping your views on this subject, then you really do need to accept it and move on.....
I respect your views and opinions on the subject because I can see exactly how you've arrived where you are. I wish you the very best.........