Bad reviews..

[westside]

The things I look for in an escort are genuine verified pictures and good reviews ........... if the escort doesn't have both of these (especially if an escort has opted out of the review system!!) then I just don't bother as there are reasons for this, usually negative.
Escort should have the right to opt out of the review system from the beginning but if they opt in then they shouldn't be allowed to suddenly change their minds because their reviews are not working out the way they planned ................ if your in your in and if your out your out, decide and live with it! Confident successful escorts have no worries about reviews ................ I wonder why????

I have said this before ................ I think if you visit a really good escort and there is no option for reviews then post one in the General Chat section ................. if you visit a really bad one then post her review in the Warning Section. I do this and apart from a bit of moaning from madam a, heather etc, it works just fine!!

As far as telling lies concerning what they do and don't do west you are wrong .......... it is not acceptable for a lady to say, for example, she does anal to compete with other escorts when she does not and I don't really care about how she "feels" that day!! It's a job, it's HER job and she advertised she would do it (she doesn't have to!!) so end of discussion!!
Charging extra for extras??? It's ok if both the punter an escort agree to this upfront .......... if you as a punter are not happy to pay extra then don't look for the extras!! I never pay for extras out of principal.
As far as the physically attributes of the punter ............... well this is just totally irrelevant as WE are paying for a female that WE are attracted to and I don't care if the escort finds ME attractive or not ............. either way she will want to be paid so what difference does it make what the punter looks like?!?!?!

I have seen this from you before west ............. you speak about escorts like they're your girlfriend or potential girlfriend ............... they aren't!! They want money and we want to fuck ............ nothing else really comes into it. Blunt but true ................

Thank You,
Paws for thought

I dont talk about escorts like they are my GF but i wll treat them likewise when im with them. The extent is up to them. They can do what they want as far as im concerned. IF they want to kiss, great, anal, great, thgis great that great but if they dont im not pushed either because............yep they aint my GF.

I use my head though,
Westside,

[bigpaws]

............... you do seem overly concerned about how they feel, will they like me, do i look good enough for them etc for what is simply a business transaction.

Chatting and being nice to escorts and getting on with them is great (GFE doesn't interest me so much as I already have a girlfriend!) but at the end of the day its sex for money and nothing more!

I have yet to read a review (even by west/deafboy!) were the punter says "great english, lovely appartment, very nice girl etc even though we didn't have sex she gets 10 out of 10 from me!" or "we got on so well and she enjoyed the love making so much that she told me no charge ........... "
It doesn't happen and it won't happen no matter how nice you are to them or how often you go to the gym etc ............... money for sex, you fuck you pay, thats it!!

Paws for thought

[JohnDoe]

I'm new so don't want to step on admin's toes or watever - if the thought of Bad reviews is off putting then just stick with Excellent/Good/Average and leave the Bad ones to be listed as Paws said "if you visit a really bad one then post her review in the Warning Section" we all get caught with the basic model often enough ( but seldom do I come away pleased ... actually never ) - I agree with Paws and tbh I really have no clue what Westside is tryn 2 say .. sorry !!

I admit at times I can be very fussy bout the girls (escort or other ) that I choose and at other times I really don't care - as a paying customer I am looking for certain things ( 1st isn't looks by the way its how you feel with the girl - comfortable, etc ) and naively I took these pages as factual descriptions only to be disappointed.

I just think if all the punters kept score and told the rest it would be of great help to others (me). Yes its open to b exploited by some girls but in the main it should hold .. You should ask the admin if she has a problem with it and if she would open a review section under Industry .. it could be setup easy in a multi choice style
ie .. drop down box with

1. Excellent
2. Good
3. Avg
4. Poor ( optional as I believe this may cause admin problems - only a guess )

Overall how would you describe this Escourt ?

How would you say this escort's description was rated ?

Size : 6-8 8-10 10-12 14-16 no clue

hair : none black blond realblond red blue

Services You Received : OWO A CIM ( multi choice )

Better yet ask punters here what they would like - cant have a comment section as this would be abused i'm afraid !


That sort of thing .. the admin could then set it up so that only reg members with more than x number of posts could take the survey/watever and that no new members ( less than 7 days/etc .. ) IP address takes it once only, etc .. well anyway you get the idea ( btw its easy for a admin to do all this - I did admin b4 )

It would be down to how open they are here to do this ..
( IMO - its not in the best interests of the escorts for this to become popular !)

Just having a list of only Good/AVG/Poor wouldn't work caus all us punters want diff things form diff types of escorts - and even that changes wit time ( r mayb thats just me !)

Note .. don't know about the rest of you but if these girls were as described and offered the services listed (without extra charge) and were even semi cordial I would be spending a lot more !!!

[westside]

............... you do seem overly concerned about how they feel, will they like me, do i look good enough for them etc for what is simply a business transaction.

Chatting and being nice to escorts and getting on with them is great (GFE doesn't interest me so much as I already have a girlfriend!) but at the end of the day its sex for money and nothing more!

I have yet to read a review (even by west/deafboy!) were the punter says "great english, lovely appartment, very nice girl etc even though we didn't have sex she gets 10 out of 10 from me!" or "we got on so well and she enjoyed the love making so much that she told me no charge ........... "
It doesn't happen and it won't happen no matter how nice you are to them or how often you go to the gym etc ............... money for sex, you fuck you pay, thats it!!

Paws for thought

I do agree with alot of what you say but it can happen where a guy gets close to an escort and it becomes more than buisiness. Im telling the truth here. I will say this much though, im not really cut out for this stuff because i like talking to women and having a laugh with them as well. what can i say, i going to be told im lying straight off the bat. I have dated three girls at the buisness, come friendly in a friendship way with two, and having gotten hints from quite a few. Look i can only speak for myself, if a guy just wants a ride fine, as for me, i enjoy the company ,talk and ride. Despite what i sound like here im very easy to get along with. I often stood at the door of a place yapping away or in a car with a girl talking away for ages. Bottom line is i treat women good, enjoy their company, have a great laugh most of the time ,whether an escort or otherwise i treat them the same and thats how i get on so well with them. I will also point out that i have dated quite a few women and of course this causes me to become a good judge of character which prevents me from getting fucked over period.

Can only speak for myself,
Westside.

[Dub Lad]

Ah jaysus and when I firsted started here for months I only used an escort for company and all the shite I got, mind you there was only 1 escort that I had done the business with so to speak. There is such a fine line between business transaction and emotionally getting involved

[bigpaws]

I am not suprised west that you got on so well with a few escorts and you even thought some were giving you "hints" .................. because thats their fucking jobs!! Get a hold of yourself man!! You're right, you really are not emotionally cut out to visit escorts because you get confused .................
I love chatting up/flirting with/talking to women as well .............. in pubs, work, nightclubs etc and I also like chatting to escorts and getting on with them but you have to seperate fantasy from reality. You FEEL like there's a connection west because thats what they WANT you to feel ............... so that you will keep coming back and PAYING!!
I have discussed this situation with several escorts and they usaully think the guys who get "confused" are just sad ...... or they feel sorry for them ......... or they feel guilty for leading the guy on ........... they feel a lot of ways but thet NEVER feel the way you think they do west!!
I don't think you are lying when you say you feel a connection .......... I just know you are deluding yourself. I know this because I know escorts and I know this because I've read your "deafboy" reviews and can see you are emotionally scarred.
I'm not trying to pick a fight west ............. I'm just trying to save you from sounding pathetic. THINK before you post west ............ please!!

There is a "fine line between a business transaction and emotionally getting involved" dub lad for people like you and west but not for the escorts ................ its a JOB!! J-O-B!!!!! Look it up in thew dictionary lads ..............................

Paws for thought

[westside]

I am not suprised west that you got on so well with a few escorts and you even thought some were giving you "hints" .................. because thats their fucking jobs!! Get a hold of yourself man!! You're right, you really are not emotionally cut out to visit escorts because you get confused .................
I love chatting up/flirting with/talking to women as well .............. in pubs, work, nightclubs etc and I also like chatting to escorts and getting on with them but you have to seperate fantasy from reality. You FEEL like there's a connection west because thats what they WANT you to feel ............... so that you will keep coming back and PAYING!!
I have discussed this situation with several escorts and they usaully think the guys who get "confused" are just sad ...... or they feel sorry for them ......... or they feel guilty for leading the guy on ........... they feel a lot of ways but thet NEVER feel the way you think they do west!!
I don't think you are lying when you say you feel a connection .......... I just know you are deluding yourself. I know this because I know escorts and I know this because I've read your "deafboy" reviews and can see you are emotionally scarred.
I'm not trying to pick a fight west ............. I'm just trying to save you from sounding pathetic. THINK before you post west ............ please!!

There is a "fine line between a business transaction and emotionally getting involved" dub lad for people like you and west but not for the escorts ................ its a JOB!! J-O-B!!!!! Look it up in thew dictionary lads ..............................

Paws for thought

i would have to go into too much detail to explain the circumstances but whatever you say. Trust me i well able to judge bs from reality. As for being emotionally scarred, nope. Quite happy and content thank you.

Nice try again,
Westside.