Can we REALLY leave our escorting life behind and go back to how we were before?

[Iashaf]

I have nothing to add to the topic here but it is awesome to see so many of our favourite ladies posting sincerely and genuinely on the topic.

It gives a very real perspective on the lives of those with whom we enjoy spending our time. Well done to all.

[Mousey]

I, too, have nothing to add.

[DONEGALANGEL]

At the present minute in time I am on a break... I am not sure if I shall do a final tour or just not bother and call it quits.. I went to uni late in life to get the job I have dreamt of for a long time.. I got a very good qualification.. and if honesty has to be spoken I love escoring but its not my dream job.. I would happily walk away from the higher money to do my dream job which pays a lot less... but then they say you get a job you love you never work another day in your life... at the minute I am working towards my dream job.. yes I don`t get the same money I earned in escorting.. but you know wat from the minute I get up and go to work I smile.. smiling all day long enjoying every moment of it.. and if I could get this job for life and I would be the happiest lady around.. so I guess yes you can be happy away from escorting..and make a life.. but then life must have a purpose..x

[Westsidex]

At the present minute in time I am on a break...

Heya sweetie. Spar are doing a kitkat promotion lately. But two for one euro.

i know this is important to you,
Westside.

[DONEGALANGEL]

thanks for that info westie will run down and get several in...lol

[Heidi Baby]

Me too,me too,me toooooooooooooooooooooooo.....LOL I love kitkat... :P (but just the dark one)

coz...Im a KITTYCAT....

[Monkeynut]

I am too busy to add anything to this thread

[Paddii]

I have had this career for several years now. I have worked at it part time and full time. I see this and treat it like a business. I run it like a business and it looks after me. I personally wish I had started younger, but like Bustybronte I did the education thing, family thing, and I am glad I did. My life experience has helped greatly. I have to say I am a happy hooker, I love what I do, I like the flexible hours, and working conditions. I am my own boss, and choose to and how I work. I set the rules. If I don't feel like working, I take the day off. Plus there is the added benefit of short working hours in comparison to I earn even in a recession. Nothing is like the good old days, but it is still better that working the checkout at Tescos.

You make a good point there, Violette, about the business aspect of things. We all bring our own person into the job we do, and often the job influences our lives and colours our views in way we perhaps don't yet realise. For example, my job is with people, all day every day. I have to develop relationships and give assistance wherever possible, and despite myself, I find that I do care about the people I work with. This spills over into my private life as I meet people and naturally want to get to know them and ask searching questions. Not as intense as in work, but there all the same, 'cos I spot it all the time and try to catch myself on.

In my limited experience of "punting" I decided to regard it as simply business transaction. Being aware of this I had to control my desire to delve too deeply in conversation, 'cos I feel the last thing an escort needs is someone trying to get inside their head. So I either shut up and appear intense, or be as superficial as possible.

I guess I'm trying to find out, in a long winded way, if escorting colours or influences your views on men, women or humanity, or is there a way to compartmentalise the job and real life? If and when you stop will you look at humanity in a different way than before you started?

[Finbar]

i also think punting when one is young is a bad idea
as when your young thats when you develop social skills, learning how to pick up wemon etc etc if you dont get theese skills how do you manage to get a wife when your older

also i dont like the idea of a young person visiting stunning ho's and then how his he in the future going to be satisfied with a bog standard wife

I have to disagree with you here Kelly, speaking from the experience of a young punter. I started visiting escorts when I was 19. The first experience kind of sought me out rather than the other way around, as I met an escort socially when I was working abroad and kind of thought 'if they are all like her this might not be too bad', which I know is a bit naive. When I came home I sought out escorts on here, I suppose because it was quite an easy solution to being quite a shy person and maybe lacking in self confidence. Which sounds quite pathetic.

In the last couple 6 months I've got past this and I've been thinking of giving it up and haven't visited any girls for the last couple of months. I guess it really isn't what I'm looking for. I'm 21 now and probably wouldn't change my time over if I could. I think escorts helped me get over any issues I might have had - especially the last couple of girls I saw, just through little comments they made etc. Now I just feel a bit more confident around women. In saying that I would never advise any young person to start this as it could evolve in a quick fix for them and ruin future relationships for them.

I can understand your point about the meeting the stunning women too but I think a connection with a person is probably worth a lot more than a physicial attration, or maybe I'm just attracted to the bog standard woman!

[neversoft]

Fantastic thread!! i wish i could add something to help all you girls ie a bit of positivity but i am not to good with words,only thing i can say is that we are all whores and i STRONGLY believe that weather its selling your body for sex or selling your body for physical or mental work aka known as regular jobs its all the same imho..anyways great intelligent thread you are a credit to yourselves with how articulate etc you all are,although just finishing off i do feel real sorry for the street girls and some escorts who as we all know are manipulated etc by some very scrupulous people behind them..