Can we REALLY leave our escorting life behind and go back to how we were before?

[El Gordo]

I feel now I lcan deal with this "crap"! Difficult, but somehow we have to survive the life too! Maybe I'm only 21 years old, but I can appreciate the life! Sometimes I dont make the right choices, but God,humans we are! Everyone makes mistakes and we learn from our owns! So do not tell me that just because you are old enough, you make better decisions! It does not matter how old you of the calendar ...
matters what is on your mind hun

I don't think Bronte meant to question your wisdom. But, as humans, we are better at learning from our own mistakes than we are at learning from other peoples'. As you get older, you don't get any better at this, but you have more mistakes to learn from.

[robijntje]

Two things. How do you know his wife doesnt go near him? He tells you and you believe everything your told? Second thing is i think its very hard for an escort, no matter how good she is ,to tell whether a guy is genuine or not. No guy in his right mind would be anything but very nice to an escort ,knowing he is going to have a good time. Just two points.

Westside.

Just as hard for the escorts as it is for the visitors I guess?

[alexis]

Im not trying to be obstinate here, but there are thousands upon thousands of young women, some just after leaving college, uni etc who have no jobs, low or no income, ladies who have been made unemployed, maybe some even have young families, mortgages etc but they make do, they survive, they live and 99% of them dont ever think, escorting is the answer to my problems, it doesnt even enter their mind, so im finding it hard, that financial reasons are the reasons why young, if any, escorts start in the profession

Sorry where did you get this statistic?????


any girl who starts selling her body for sex is in it for the money!!! why else would you do it?

im constantly hearing from men, "there is a recession you know"!!! , "eh yeah i know why do you think im selling my body for sex if i wasnt effect by the rescession aswell!!!!!"

the reason i started doing this is for money! I went to university scraped by on a job with min wage, left my min wage job to concentrate on my finals,graduated and was faced with no job propects, no part time job anymore, and loans coming out my ear that i took out to help me through college!i was struggling on benifit for months searching for work so hence i had to resort to differnet means!! so YES ITS DRIVEN BY FINACIAL NEEDS JUST LIKE LUCY SAID!

its a certain girl who can bring herself to do it! so maybe that is the point you are trying to get acrosss!

i hope i dont disrespect any girl by saying this but i had considered escorting while i was in college, but i thought i was too good for it! i considered myself an academic, well educated and didnt want to "lower" myself. i didnt want to rely on my looks and body for money but my brains! i did have a misconception that it was degrading and disrespectful, there are alot of moral and ethical issues surrounding it!So when i entered this profession i was bit desperate, i was strggling for money, depressed because of it and my self esteem, self worth and self belief were affect by this and of course a few other contributing factors in my life aswell!


Now that i am in this profession i have a completely different outlook on it! i see it in a whole new light. But i have the utmost respect for escorts now, i used to think this was an easy way to make money! not in the slightest! men have no idea, the physical, emotional and mental effects it has on a women! it takes a courageous strong women to make the decision to enter this profession and be able to handle it! fair play to all the ladies here!

[English Milly Masseuse]

a very silly post plenty of jobs where women can make money in other jobs without having to do escorting dont give me that...

Yes, there are plenty of jobs out there that pay well but you need to think about qualifications needed for those jobs. You seem to overlook the fact that lots of mature escorts have children to consider too.....and many personal reasons to take the decision to be an escort

This is another detabe all together.

I had a professional Corporate job in London before I was made redundant 3 years ago. My choices were limited due to personal circumstances but I still had a mortgage of over 1000e per month to pay, council tax, bills, living expenses, I needed to buy a new car because the company car went back. I earnt alot of commission and for me to build a new portfolio of clients from scratch would have taken at least 6 months to a year! And that was after I had even found a job....
I was not sitting pretty with a man to look after me emotionally and financially.......
recession had hit London Hard etc etc etc.....believe me, I looked down many avenues before I started escorting. Back then it was for survival to keep a roof over my head/now it's because I have freedom to do other things, provide for my family and have
C H O I C E S

Of course you need to be a people person, you need to enjoy sex and you have to be a strong woman! This is not an easy option for any of us BUT now I am able to work when I like, go where I like, study AND have precious family time and the money I earn doesn't go to a greedy employer who makes fortunes from my hard work!
Women in this job are very underestimated

[Heidi Baby]

I know!

Its just my view Gordo! and yes ur right ------->As you get older, you don't get any better at this, but you have more mistakes to learn from.

[Westsidex]

[QUOTE=Bustybronte;305293][B]Yes, there are plenty of jobs out there that pay well but you need to think about qualifications needed for those jobs.

Also the stress levels of some of those jobs. A lot of office jobs and professional jobs are very stressful mentally. I see ppl stressed out of their brains.They have money but their health gets screwed up.

not worth it,
Westside.

[English Milly Masseuse]

I feel now I lcan deal with this "crap"! Difficult, but somehow we have to survive the life too! Maybe I'm only 21 years old, but I can appreciate the life! Sometimes I dont make the right choices, but God,humans we are! Everyone makes mistakes and we learn from our owns! So do not tell me that just because you are old enough, you make better decisions! It does not matter how old you of the calendar ...
matters what is on your mind hun

I wrote that wrong hun.....I meant that it would have been wrong for me. I was not mature enough in my 20's to have coped with escorting. Times have changed and people are all different. I have a friend who is only 25 with her own property business, several properties/lots of stress and responsibility and I could never have done that either when I was in my 20's

[English Milly Masseuse]

Two things. How do you know his wife doesnt go near him? He tells you and you believe everything your told? Second thing is i think its very hard for an escort, no matter how good she is ,to tell whether a guy is genuine or not. No guy in his right mind would be anything but very nice to an escort ,knowing he is going to have a good time. Just two points.

Westside.

mmn yes......generally
but I have an EX client that I have become very close to- I know lots about his life, as he knows lots about mine. Of course clients can be who ever they want to be when they visit an escort.....isn't that the beauty of it????

Not all people are un genuine or full of shit tho!

[ciara]

i agree with this
but i left my full time job for this so i wasnt stuck for money at the time , while i wasnt rolling in it or anything like that i was comfortable.
its was more the boredom of 9-5 that drove me to it plus a helping of hornyness lol!! and of course the money side is a big aspect!!

i thinks for many its a great option if they mentally strong enough ect.. but for many im sure it would never be an option, broke or not, as some ppl maybe are more emotionally attached when it comes to sex or maybe simply to shy.. who knows!!!

[Violette]

I have had this career for several years now. I have worked at it part time and full time. I see this and treat it like a business. I run it like a business and it looks after me. I personally wish I had started younger, but like Bustybronte I did the education thing, family thing, and I am glad I did. My life experience has helped greatly. I have to say I am a happy hooker, I love what I do, I like the flexible hours, and working conditions. I am my own boss, and choose to and how I work. I set the rules. If I don't feel like working, I take the day off. Plus there is the added benefit of short working hours in comparison to I earn even in a recession. Nothing is like the good old days, but it is still better that working the checkout at Tescos.