Can we REALLY leave our escorting life behind and go back to how we were before?

[Rodney69]

I don't know many escorts who are scraping by on the minimum wage, good or bad. What is a 'bad' escort, anyway?

Discussing the difference between a good and bad escort is going slightly off topic isn't it? Isn't that what the reviews are for?

[nicegirlsarenice]

sooooo?????

Tell us your ways!!!!

* Not do what is advertised.
* Not being interested in the punter at all.
* Being impolite or rude.
* Not speaking the language.
* Just lying on the bed and making no effort, like "a sack of spuds" I saw one reviewer write.

In typical services business, they say "the customer is always right", and the employees are supposed to be in good-humour and helpful at all times. In the escorting business sometimes it's like as though it's a crime if you complain about anything.

But I think that most of the time there is a mutual understanding and escorts/clients get along fine.

[El Gordo]

* Not do what is advertised.
* Not being interested in the punter at all.
* Being impolite or rude.
* Not speaking the language.
* Just lying on the bed and making no effort, like "a sack of spuds" I saw one reviewer write.

In typical services business, they say "the customer is always right", and the employees are supposed to be in good-humour and helpful at all times. In the escorting business sometimes it's like as though it's a crime if you complain about anything.

But I think that most of the time there is a mutual understanding and escorts/clients get along fine.

Of course, there are equally many ways of being a bad punter:
* Asking for what's not advertised.
* Not being interested in the escort at all.
* Being impolite or rude.
* Not speaking the language.
* Just lying on the bed and making no effort, like "a sack of spuds"

[English Milly Masseuse]

i also think punting when one is young is a bad idea
as when your young thats when you develop social skills, learning how to pick up wemon etc etc if you dont get theese skills how do you manage to get a wife when your older

also i dont like the idea of a young person visiting stunning ho's and then how his he in the future going to be satisfied with a bog standard wife

I totally agree Kelly.....n a way I wished I had escorted in the 80's when I was a curvy size 12 and young enough and free enough to travel and work....doing what I wanted when I wanted but I am also glad that I did the "college, marriage, family thing" first because I think that if I had been an escort in my 20's I would not have been wise enough to cope with all the shit we have to deal with. No one can teach you the book of life and knowledge is valuable. I am glad I left it till I was "mature" enough to be able to make sensible decisions........

[alexis]

A bad escort will earn as little as a bad employee...

There are plenty of bad escorts out there but unfortunately they make the same amout of money as the good escorts! prob even more actually coz they dont care about the privacy and discretion of customers and would see them back to back take double bookings,dont take enough time to get ready inbwteeen clients etc

[English Milly Masseuse]

Im not trying to be obstinate here, but there are thousands upon thousands of young women, some just after leaving college, uni etc who have no jobs, low or no income, ladies who have been made unemployed, maybe some even have young families, mortgages etc but they make do, they survive, they live and 99% of them dont ever think, escorting is the answer to my problems, it doesnt even enter their mind, so im finding it hard, that financial reasons are the reasons why young, if any, escorts start in the profession

Thats a very small minded view.......do you live in a cotton wool ball??

[Lucy Chambers]

Discussing the difference between a good and bad escort is going slightly off topic isn't it? Isn't that what the reviews are for?

Quite. I keep an eye out for NGANS.

[Heidi Baby]

I totally agree Kelly.....n a way I wished I had escorted in the 80's when I was a curvy size 12 and young enough and free enough to travel and work....doing what I wanted when I wanted but I am also glad that I did the "college, marriage, family thing" first because I think that if I had been an escort in my 20's I would not have been wise enough to cope with all the shit we have to deal with. No one can teach you the book of life and knowledge is valuable. I am glad I left it till I was "mature" enough to be able to make sensible decisions........

I feel now I lcan deal with this "crap"! Difficult, but somehow we have to survive the life too! Maybe I'm only 21 years old, but I can appreciate the life! Sometimes I dont make the right choices, but God,humans we are! Everyone makes mistakes and we learn from our owns! So do not tell me that just because you are old enough, you make better decisions! It does not matter how old you of the calendar ...
matters what is on your mind hun

[English Milly Masseuse]

This leads me to another point. as a client I have this dilemna of whether to go back to the same 2 or 3 escorts where I know I will really enjoy myself, but then I may become emotionally attached and it wouldn't be fun any more. Or always go for someone new to avoid that.

I have actually felt like this in the past with certain regular clients.

We have maybe become a little "too close" on a deeply emotional level and although it's lovely to have a connection with a client, I feel that there is a fine line that works both ways.

Going off subject a tiny bit....

One thing I often observe and always wonder about is the client who has a great personality, is good looking, knows what he's doing in the seduction department, works damn hard to provide for his family and his wife doesn't go near him!

I know it's different when youre married and you see each other day in and day out but I do feel for those guys. The genuinly nice ones....

[Westsidex]

One thing I often observe and always wonder about is the client who has a great personality, is good looking, knows what he's doing in the seduction department, works damn hard to provide for his family and his wife doesn't go near him!

Two things. How do you know his wife doesnt go near him? He tells you and you believe everything your told? Second thing is i think its very hard for an escort, no matter how good she is ,to tell whether a guy is genuine or not. No guy in his right mind would be anything but very nice to an escort ,knowing he is going to have a good time. Just two points.

Westside.