Can we REALLY leave our escorting life behind and go back to how we were before?

[Westsidex]

from earning 200e and hour to 10e an hour thats def not going to be an easy transition!!!
im not really one to have much of an opinion here as im only 20 and only been working hor a year and half
but will say havnt been able to have a relationship really, i love my job and i do truely love the sex :P but then at the end of the day u kinda get sick of it :S .... then u go to bed n wake up horny lol again lol

but i find it hard to be genuinely emotional with someone and when im not working def dont want someone cuddling up to me or anything, time off is my bodys time off .. meaning no1 can touch, my space ur space lol
hence for me relationships at the moment are off the card

see how things change when im older but for now im happy

One thing i would think an escort would have big trouble with is working for somebody else and not being her own boss. This is understandable. Also working set hours would also be a hard thing to adapt to.

I guess it all boils down to how badly an escort wants something and how happy she is in her current position.

westside.

[Rodney69]

Although age plays a part, everyone is different. The most important thing for an escort is to be very strong minded and to be able to detach themselves emotionally from their clients. Obviously with age you become more mature and know more about yourself. But who is to say that a girl who is 18, 19, 20 can not cope with this. But at the end of the day everyone is a human with feelings and who knows how it will impact in the future.

It's very easy to say why don't more women do it, and earn 200euro/hr rather than 10euro/hr. But it takes a very special type of person to be able to do this, to be able to handle all the different types of clients and not to be affected.


From a clients perspective, again it is not for me to say that young lads should wait. But once you get into it, imo it could be very difficult to stop. For me personally it is all about having fun, the thrill of doing it is exciting, and my best experiences have not been about the sex, that's important of course, but the best times i've had are where the chemistry has been good.

This leads me to another point. as a client I have this dilemna of whether to go back to the same 2 or 3 escorts where I know I will really enjoy myself, but then I may become emotionally attached and it wouldn't be fun any more. Or always go for someone new to avoid that.

[corkpunter]

this job i get a little pat on the the bum a text a repeat visit flowers etc etc and by thoose little thing i know ive done a good job and it makes me feel forfilled to know that i have helped that person wot ever it may be

but a normal job id really need a boss thats willing to give me a bum pat every now and again
im so nervous about a normal job i really want one but for example in one of my periovous jobs i was a suppervisor doing the lazy managers job as well as my own i felt i was doing a fantastic job as every9one would come to me if there was a problem including the manager, i would never leave the lace my over time hours was sky high due to other supervisors not being able to stick it

but as soon as i applied for a assistant managers position in one to the stores branches i was brought up told how crap i was told how much things i had done wrong (might add the things they said were down to other supervisors not me as i wasnt even in the store when they occured ) and when i tried to stand up for my self and explain the examples given were nothing to do with me but down to other suspervisors decissions or the managers dessions, i wasnt allowed to speak, so i littery handed in my notice the next day, i dont think i could go through something like that again

That sounds like bad management to me. Each person needs to be treated differently in all aspects of life. A good manager will know his/her employees and know that employee needs an arm around the shoulder sometimes, whereas another employee prefer to be left on his own etc. That is just how a good manager gets the best of of the employees.

Sorry to hear you were treated badly in this aspect of life, unfortunately with being a manager comes responsibility and quite a few managers don't do that too well. This however should not deter you from trying it again. There is also good managers out there.

[corkpunter]

That is not a discussion I will be drawn on, i'm afraid. If I could sit down and explain the realities to every young escort I meet then I would. But people make decisions- sometimes before they have much clue where those decisions can lead.

Your second point is true for everything in life. How many times have you heard, if only I could go back being 20 but with the experiences of a 30 or 40 or 50 year old. You live and learn, sometimes you take stupid risks, you make stupid choices, based on the experiences you have had so far in your life. But this is life.

[Experienced Punter esq]

Yes. But escorting tends to be driven by financial need.

a very silly post plenty of jobs where women can make money in other jobs without having to do escorting dont give me that...

[Doozer]

a very silly post plenty of jobs where women can make money in other jobs without having to do escorting dont give me that...

Ah but would they earn as much with little or no experience

[robijntje]

Ah but would they earn as much with little or no experience

A bad escort will earn as little as a bad employee...

[Heidi Baby]

So Gentleman,


The person will b able to forget the past?
Can U forget it or u will say:-U were a hore so just shut ur self down!-?
Any chance to have a normal life after this?

Do not get me wrong!

I love my job! I meet many interesting people. I love sex as I like to speak with lot of intelligent people. Only wonder what could be restarted? I am 21 years old and now I'm in the business for 3 years! I started very young, because my family needed the money! Then I'm stuck here, I do not mind. I'm still only 21 has already lived a lot of things in life and from that I became so strong! What does not kill you makes stronger! I still enjoy life and wanna be somebody later!
I do not want to do this forever!
Watch out! I'll be famous! famous hairdresser
Wish me good luck and a lot of guests that I can pay for the course!

[Rodney69]

So Gentleman,


The person will b able to forget the past?
Can U forget it or u will say:-U were a hore so just shut ur self down!-?
Any chance to have a normal life after this?

Do not get me wrong!

I love my job! I meet many interesting people. I love sex as I like to speak with lot of intelligent people. Only wonder what could be restarted? I am 21 years old and now I'm in the business for 3 years! I started very young, because my family needed the money! Then I'm stuck here, I do not mind. I'm still only 21 has already lived a lot of things in life and from that I became so strong! What does not kill you makes stronger! I still enjoy life and wanna be somebody later!
I do not want to do this forever!
Watch out! I'll be famous! famous hairdresser
Wish me good luck and a lot of guests that I can pay for the course!

Good luck Heidi, One day you will run your own hairdressing business, if you put your mind to it. and that way you are still your own boss.

[dark-knight]

You should never try to forget the past, its part of your life, part of you. Never forget who you are that doesn't mean never move on. We should always remember the journey we took to get to where we are, we can learn from it. At the end of the day all we are is a sum of our actions.