Why I am unwilling to be kept waiting

[sharkskin]

Ladies, I know that you do your best to have everything ready for an appointment and I know that it is not always possible for you to do this but please, be understanding of clients who will not wait.

If I visit an independent escort who is of age and willingly providing services, I am not breaking the law and I am comfortable about that. If you tell me to turn up at a certain location and then to call you at an agreed time then I will do just that. If you then tell me where to come to meet you: that is fine.

If instead, you tell me to wait for a few minutes, we have a problem. If I wait, I can be considered to be loitering in a public place for the purpose of paying for sex. That is a crime. If you have to ask me to wait, I will not. Sorry, I know that is hard on you but it is also hard on me as I will not get to see you.

Perhaps you think that I am being needlessly paranoid but consider a situation such as this:

You are working in one of Dublin's many apartment complexes and one of your neighbours is unhappy about what is going on and has called the guards. If you are independent, there is little or nothing that they can do about you but they could just hang around and wait for a man to turn up and make a phone call. If he then hangs around for another five minutes, receives a call and then goes to the door and rings a bell, they have him. A check on the cellphone records, a google check of E-I profiles and phone numbers, a charge against the client, a prosecution and a newspaper report and that building will no longer be considered safe by clients. The guards will consider that they have done a good job. The probable trashing of the client's life is just collateral damage.

So, if you are not able to be ready at the agreed time, please do not be surprised if I tell you that I do not wait.

If you know that you will be a few minutes late, call me or text me to let me know. I will then just take a little while longer to arrive and all will be well.

Thanks.