is saying thanks too much to ask for?????

[Experienced Punter esq]

Courtesy is a given, but I don't particularly want to feel pressured into replying into every review- as previously said I don't always find it appropriate. I am happy to give a reference, if I like the client.

thatsums things up nicely......

[robijntje]

I wouldn't call courtesy a given, more a thing that is easy to learn but hard to master... Saying thanks when you're walking out the door would then also be inappropriate? Everybody likes a thanks for things they do.

[Lucy Chambers]

I wouldn't call courtesy a given, more a thing that is easy to learn but hard to master... Saying thanks when you're walking out the door would then also be inappropriate? Everybody likes a thanks for things they do.

And that is my pet hate. I cannot bear being thanked as anyone walks out the door- I am not a tea shop. Now, if you mean sycophancy, that is a different topic.

[robijntje]

And that is my pet hate. I cannot bear being thanked as anyone walks out the door- I am not a tea shop. Now, if you mean sycophancy, that is a different topic.

Well, escorting is a business, nothing more. And you just had a good 'transaction', a good time for the value of your money, a thanks in that view is never inappropriate, I'd say?

[Lucy Chambers]

Well, escorting is a business, nothing more. And you just had a good 'transaction', a good time for the value of your money, a thanks in that view is never inappropriate, I'd say?

I didn't quite say that, my dear. I did mention 'with benefits'. There is no need for me to express my thanks upon leaving- there has been enough expressed, no doubt. Nor do I intend to share my thoughts with the world- it may not be appropriate. If you decide to review, thats lovely. I didn't sign up to that though.

[El Gordo]

Robijntje, have you met Lucy? You seem convinced for some reason that she treats her clients impersonally. I can assure you that she doesn't.

[robijntje]

Robijntje, have you met Lucy? You seem convinced for some reason that she treats her clients impersonally. I can assure you that she doesn't.

I haven't claimed that, nor will I ever claim that about anybody if I haven't met them in person. I haven't met Lucy in person, so why would I seem to be convinced of something she's maybe/maybe not?

[Lucy Chambers]

I haven't claimed that, nor will I ever claim that about anybody if I haven't met them in person. I haven't met Lucy in person, so why would I seem to be convinced of something she's maybe/maybe not?

Strange, I had that impression too. Perhaps we need to go over the rules of debate. The first one is not to get personal.

[robijntje]

Strange, I had that impression too. Perhaps we need to go over the rules of debate. The first one is not to get personal.

Is it personal if you're stating facts?

[Lucy Chambers]

Is it personal if you're stating facts?

You cannot state facts about being an escort if you are not an escort- you can only state your perception of the facts. Reread your posts. I am the only one who could tell you how it feels to be me, and vice versa.