i've at least 3,000 posts before that happensOriginally Posted by benin
i've at least 3,000 posts before that happens
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Yep - just like the old Buzzcocks song, "Ever fallen in love (with someone you shouldn't have)?"
The Gods are just, and of our pleasant vices
Make instruments to plague us
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well I had a friend who I thought very dearly off... who fell in love with an escort.. the person no longer visits here... I miss talking to them cos we were able to talk about anything under the sun.. I know this is cyber world but to be honest through sleepless nights and bad days it was always nice to know when I sent him a text message he was here to help me feel better... now we dont talk at all..so I guess when someone falls in love with an escort they forget about the people they met here.. but life must go and everyone is entitled to love... the thing that I think on when an escort is still in the job is pillow talk.. I read a post on a chat group recently of a guy who fell in love with an escort and how she tells him everything... so I guess there is pro`s and con`s to this connection...
Attraction is something that happens but driving a person away is something thats caused.
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Well found, you should look at Mr Mcgoos' serious reply when I made my tongue in cheek remark ,I cracked up laughing,still not sure whether it was serious,hope it wasnt
a thousand kisses deep..
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very wise words my dear..x
you dont find love ,love finds you if it is strong all obstacles can be overcome.what we call love is striking a happy balance of putting up with eachother.
lovin all the optimism here. Sure thing all obstacles can be overcome with true love. Love always finds a way for two people to be together. Like it or not love changes people too - for the better. Many of us are afraid of changing ourselves, so we steer clear of love, as if it is something we can avoid! Love might even involve sacrifice. Love is effortless, involuntary and from the heart. Relationships need effort and work
They can be overcome but it involves the biggest obstacle of all, the human ego. What else destroys friendships, relationships and even prospect friendships and relationships? It happens all around. Some examples;
You have two close friends and one of them meets someone of the opposite sex and and there is a chance that they wont see or talk as much. Along comes the ego of the one feeling that it will go this way to try and stop any relationship from blossoming. This is common.
A guy and a girl meet and one of them is insecure due to mistrust of a past partner. Along comes the ego and they have to know everything about anything that their new partner is doing. The result is smothering the other person and they drift off.
Another one. Two ppl are getting closer to each other and a prospect of a relationship looms but its going slow and one of them starts to feel like rejection might be in sight and panics and stops contact or throws a fit or whatever. The ego again.
These are just some egs and look at them. They are all based on "perceived" actions. Not only that but they easily solved with just some give and take and understanding. The ego is a great and a dangerous thing. To use it right and feeling good about yourself is fine but used to control other ppl it will destroy anything and everything in its path.
Westside.
Last edited by Westsidex; 06-10-10 at 11:44.
The essence of a good loving relationship is when both people let go of self. If only one lets go, then the relationship is unequal and doomed to failure. Doesn't mean that the love is gone, but the relationship cannot continue on a healthy basis. Even two people who love each other dearly can hurt each other more than any other person can.
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