I get asked that question all the time, and I still don't know what the answer is!
Some peoples kinky might be anothers bizarre and having dabbled a fair bit in the fetish scene I have done some pretty wacky things. But I really don't know if it's "Kinky" or not.
I suppose what I consider normal could be considered kinky by some, but everytime I'm asked the question I'm lost for words lol.
So what does kinky mean to you?