What a joke this site is becoming!

[MatureJane]

Just because this is an escort site, doesn't mean you can degrade women. The avatar depicted a pussy been pulled apart. Surely this is not sexy and isn't this what this site is supposed to be about - sex - getting sex - meeting escorts for sex. Basically, I think it was disgusting and degrading.

[Forrest]

On the contrary... you see the problem lies here in what you have just said, that we can't be seen to be backing down. As management, people are under the assumption that once a decision has been made, we have to stick by it and rough it no matter what. I made a decision that not everyone agreed on, especially Dom of course, but rather than wait for a simple explaination, I feel that (just as I did initially), he acted on impulse. I'm not afraid to be seen as changing my mind. I'm not a dictator.

A polite message and an alternative solution would have sufficed, and to be honest I don't really care much for a public slate, as while all this is going on in the forefront of the forums, I'm still in the background, dealing with real issues such as reporting numbers and details for sex offenders, rapists and stalkers, trying to deal with disputes regarding reviews, making sure that people submitting fake pictures are not getting away with it, making sure that fake reviews aren't going through, etc. Yes, this is all part of my job and I'm paid to do it, but consider this: do I do this just for the money, or do I do it so that I can play a part to try to help people out in a world gone mad?

Let's summarise this, shall we? I deleted a picture and asked Dom politely to choose an alternative (and have admitted that this was the wrong way round). I didn't warn him or infract him for being offensive, nor did I get some kind of strange feeling of empowerment. I removed a picture and offered to rectify it. To be honest, that's it really.

You are fairly new to the job of forum manager Samlad, but you have a tendency to be a bit too impulsive.
If Dom's avatar was considered offensive by some then you should have let him know and asked him would he consider replacing it with something less offensive. Ok, so you have admitted you made a mistake and did things the wrong way round, but you have a history of this now. I seem to remember you removing signatures from member profiles without notifying them. I don't keep track of all the 'management' decisions by you and Jackie, but it has become a bit more heavy handed recently.
I don't think I would be happy to stay here if I thought the managers or mods could/would edit any part of my profile without my consent.

[nicegirlsarenice]

Just because this is an escort site, doesn't mean you can degrade women. The avatar depicted a pussy been pulled apart. Surely this is not sexy and isn't this what this site is supposed to be about - sex - getting sex - meeting escorts for sex. Basically, I think it was disgusting and degrading.

Who says it's degrading women? Some people like to have sex roughly or be rough, it's none of your business really. When you say something like that just remember that it's YOU who is insulting the woman, just like the anti-escorting people insult prostitutes by calling it "degrading".

I do think there's a place for censoring things that are too gory or offensive, but not dom's avatar surely. After all, a pussy has to be stretched some way or you can't have sex can you? I don't understand why so many people have such an appetite to give out about allaged sexism against women when if anything it's actually against men more of the time.

[MatureJane]

A pussy has to be STRETCHED in order to have sex!!!! - Did you ever hear about foreplay?????

[vampirejackie]

A pussy has to be STRETCHED in order to have sex!!!! - Ever heard about foreplay?????

class i dont think that word exists in the male dictionary xx

[nappertandy]

The owner of disputed pussy needs a trim it took her so long to read alllllllllllllllll this drama, she was smooth as silk on page 1

[Westsidex]

Did you ever hear about foreplay?????

Thats Tennis isnt it? The player gave it the foreplay?

well,
Westside.

[Westsidex]

You are fairly new to the job of forum manager Samlad, but you have a tendency to be a bit too impulsive.
If Dom's avatar was considered offensive by some then you should have let him know and asked him would he consider replacing it with something less offensive. Ok, so you have admitted you made a mistake and did things the wrong way round, but you have a history of this now. I seem to remember you removing signatures from member profiles without notifying them. I don't keep track of all the 'management' decisions by you and Jackie, but it has become a bit more heavy handed recently.
I don't think I would be happy to stay here if I thought the managers or mods could/would edit any part of my profile without my consent.

The whole issue was explained a few posts up.

Westside.

[Westsidex]

Who says it's degrading women? Some people like to have sex roughly or be rough, it's none of your business really. When you say something like that just remember that it's YOU who is insulting the woman, just like the anti-escorting people insult prostitutes by calling it "degrading".

I do think there's a place for censoring things that are too gory or offensive, but not dom's avatar surely. After all, a pussy has to be stretched some way or you can't have sex can you? I don't understand why so many people have such an appetite to give out about allaged sexism against women when if anything it's actually against men more of the time.

Ah but you see this is where you are getting it wrong. It is her business because she is the one opening the door to a complete stranger not you. Suppose some guy decided to try what was in the avatar? Do you think it would hurt? Do you think it might scare an escort? You see it is actually all the escorts business. The only ppl that this is none of their business are the punters except Dom because its his avatar.

Westside.

[nappertandy]

A pussy has to be STRETCHED in order to have sex!!!! - Did you ever hear about foreplay?????

knew she was doin something wrong but would she listen ?

http://www.xrope.com/stretchedlips/1.jpg