Time wasting - The new Irish Pastime?

[benin]

Lads keep the personal insults off the boards

no problem..but my post was a joke

[scotus]

Next time, try actually reading what I said before coming at me with your mob mentality. You were just spurred on by some other posters' remarks. To be honest with you, I have no intention of playing a villain in the latest dramatic soap opera nonsense going around here. I said nothing that wasn't completely fair and known.

Only radical feminists would accuse hardcore pornography of doing anything like that, and in fairness to Anitasizzle I think she made a lot more sensible posts later on. There is just known to be no link between sexual violence and hardcore pornography, the same with violence and games, and I was just pointing that out. If there is no link between those two then how much can there be a link between timewasters and them, nevermind blaming pornography for timewasters.

If you had bothered to stop and think about it, you would know that it is absolute nonsense to state there is no link between sexual violence and hardcore pornography, and between violence and games.

Some of the links are circumstantial, and not proven, but that is separate from saying there are no links. But some of the evidence is quite compelling

[Doozer]

If you had bothered to stop and think about it, you would know that it is absolute nonsense to state there is no link between sexual violence and hardcore pornography, and between violence and games.

Some of the links are circumstantial, and not proven, but that is separate from saying there are no links. But some of the evidence is quite compelling

Actually Scotus he is right. Though we havea correlation between availibilty of hardcore porn and the rise in sexual violence, corralation does not equal causation

[scotus]

Actually Scotus he is right. Though we havea correlation between availibilty of hardcore porn and the rise in sexual violence, corralation does not equal causation

But I never actually said anything different to this

What I did say was you could not reasonably say that there was no link, which was what was stated earlier.

[Doozer]

But I never actually said anything different to this

What I did say was you could not reasonably say that there was no link, which was what was stated earlier.

My bad I miss read your post

[nicegirlsarenice]

If you had bothered to stop and think about it, you would know that it is absolute nonsense to state there is no link between sexual violence and hardcore pornography, and between violence and games.

There is no link between sexual violence and hardcore pornography. Otherwise you can say there's a link between liking The Simpsons and being an axe murderer. No, saying there's a link between things implies that it's not all just a coincidence.

But there isn't even a correlation between violence and playing videogames.... people who regularly play violent videogames are LESS violent that people who don't. It has to do with socioeconomic circumstances. So it's hardly "absolute nonsense" when it's the exact opposite to what you're saying.

[Doozer]

There is no link between sexual violence and hardcore pornography. Otherwise you can say there's a link between liking The Simpsons and being an axe murderer. No, saying there's a link between things implies that it's not all just a coincidence.

But there isn't even a correlation between violence and playing videogames.... people who regularly play violent videogames are LESS violent that people who don't. It has to do with socioeconomic circumstances. So it's hardly "absolute nonsense" when it's the exact opposite to what you're saying.

Actually Nicegirls yes and no
There is no proven evidence that porn and violence are linked but their is eveidence of playing violent games and violence
however the studies have only shown minor changes so no voilent outbursts happend but there is a link

[Bangman]

I have only once made an appointment and failed to turn up (for genuine reasons) and on that occasion I did text the escort to apologise.
If this sort of thing is on the increase, then I fail to see clients watching porn as a reason for it’s increase. I mean people have always watched porn, no more so now than in the past so I can’t see why this should suddenly be a reason for an increase in time wasting appointments.
My own feeling is that it is due to the economic times that we now live in – in the good times there were more clients around for the escorts but now there are fewer and it’s all become more competitive. Therefore, as has already been suggested, there are probably more pimps or friends of escorts deliberately making bogus appointments to try and ruin the business of another escort.
Unfortunate I know ladies but cest la vie.

[Sensual Delights]

I got to the stage that I don't even mind if some people don't show up for the appointments.
I have to resort to this attitude, for my own sanity.

But what I still mind is more complicated situations such as:

- Guy (EI registered user not participating actively on the forums) makes an appointment 2 - 3 days in advance for a massage section back in August.
- Even he booked so early in advance he canceled by text only a few minutes before the appointment time, so of course I couldn't fit anybody in. I denied the client before a longer appointment, on the basis that I have another appointment in an hour or so (I need time of course in between the apps).
- The cancellation message is saying something that he is in a meeting. I didn't like that because he said he was in a day off previously. If he got called back to work, surely he knew before early afternoon. But seeing that he took the time to canceled, I texted back that it's all fine.
- He requested another appointment in 2 days time. Even if I had my doubts, I agreed.
- The second time, he simply didn't show up. No text, no calls, no nothing.

I might have been very naive to get into situations like this. And trust me, I had so many situations like this before
I don't think it is fair when this is MY JOB and I don't pull people by their sleeves to come and see me
The guy made me loose 2 appointment + another half an hour denied to another client.
This, in a time when I had to resort to borrowing money from a friend because I needed to pay for something.

From now on, I'll keep it very simple.
Client not showing up? No more appointments.
Client canceling late even he booked in advance? No more appointments.

If someone had indeed a very genuine reason not to show up and not to cancel, I am pretty sure he'll have the decency to explain it to me, even later.

[Mature Busty Siobhan]

A Lot of Shit has been posted here about Porn being the cause of Timewasting etc.Total BULLSHIT.100% of men and many women watch and love Porn.For those women that dont like it,you should respect that some people do,and this is very normal.It does not mean you are going to book an Escort and demand you Cum in her Ass,or book one and not turn up cause you just tossed your load.Many people watch very violent films.Ive yet to read about about a blood bath outside Storm Cimema.