Preventing premature ejaculation?

[anon361]

It's a fecker, a lady could blow me till next year and I can hold it but sometimes I could be having sex for a very short time and cum, I suppose it's a bit selfish but in my mind I sometimes would be saying fuck it, I won't hold on, I'll just cum, it's not the lady I'm trying to pleasure, it's my pleasure thats the main objective

If it's any consolation I had a conversation with a very good looking girl recently and of course sex came up and she said the worst she ever had was yer man cumming in his hand as he was about to guide his dick into her, what a let down as he was super fit looking she said LOL

[wellhungchap]

It happened to me once. when i were doing a lady in the "Canine" position. deedin, i were about to reach the point of no return, so i tried thinking about things that disgusted me. The thing that disgusts me the most, is me auld nans varicose veined legs, and the horrible bunnions adout on her feet. just thinking about them, made me last longer. though i when i did erupt, it wasnt from my large, long and thick fully erect raging semi

[Rockman]

If the lady is really good she may know where your at and how to postpone you cumming by gripping and putting pressure with her thumb on the underside of the penis this halts the ejactulation and brings you back to first base.

I think it all depends on the lady and how comfortable you are and the condom used. I often find if I hold it and stop myself so as to enjoy it longer then when I want to cum find it difficult. The odd time I cum after 10 thrusts but maintain the eriction which allows me to slow down and really enjoy my time. I always try to cum twice during a visit.

[Cable87]

If the lady is really good she may know where your at and how to postpone you cumming by gripping and putting pressure with her thumb on the underside of the penis this halts the ejactulation and brings you back to first base.

I think it all depends on the lady and how comfortable you are and the condom used. I often find if I hold it and stop myself so as to enjoy it longer then when I want to cum find it difficult. The odd time I cum after 10 thrusts but maintain the eriction which allows me to slow down and really enjoy my time. I always try to cum twice during a visit.

I've done that myself it does get some results I've found.

I've also found that it can really be about mental focus; just convince yourself you've got a job to do, which is to NOT blow it immediately, and hopefully you can hang in there! I've had a few times myself where I really didn't last long at all, which I think are attributable to a few things, from how hot the girl is, to how long it's been since I last had sex, to the nature of the encounter and how inviting/alluring the lady is-- a lady that really knows how to push all the right buttons can make even the longest lasting guys come quickly!

I heard a story or 2 from some of the ladies about clients of their who didn't even get as far as the sex before they came, like some have mentioned above. My favourite story I heard from an escort was about a guy that came simply from the warm-up massage! She was running her hands down his back, got to his arse, and SPLAT!

[jggy2003]

I take a while on occasions but usually get there. If you say it to the escort it might help. I remember a massage with a happy ending and she kept saying 'don't come just yet,hold on...' and sure enough I did hold on and when I came , it was all the more beautiful..............

[Buzz]

Could be worse. I heard of a guy coming just seeing the escort.

I've been in a similar situation, right before my pants came off, first bit of contact.