why are women so shallow?

[Taylor of Manchester]

you rite he is and the one on the other sides a shithead..............or maybe its me and their lovely...no. their definetly cunts.

PMSL.............

T
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[lonely]

Honey its never too late - and look at it this way - if you are punting you are not involved with another woman on an emotional level, its keeps lines drawn around the box. Personally I think emotional involvment with someone else is a betrayal - whereas sex with an escort - is just that.

I'm not being very articulate, but I hope you understand my point.

T
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so taylor does that mean you would forgive a fella your with if you found out he had been seeing escorts

[Taylor of Manchester]

He was and I did

T
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[pablo_23]

Honey its never too late - and look at it this way - if you are punting you are not involved with another woman on an emotional level, its keeps lines drawn around the box. Personally I think emotional involvment with someone else is a betrayal - whereas sex with an escort - is just that.

I'm not being very articulate, but I hope you understand my point.

T
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I think you are quite right on this, but if you try to explain to your woman it wouldnt be that easy. I personally would feel bad about cheating even in sexual way but at the same time I know that it was only sex and nothing else. I guess best solution is beign in open relationship, but dont think many woman would be into that. So at the same time I agree and disagree. Unfortunately life isnt that easy.

[lonely]

I suppose you can say it's never too late to change, but I have a stubborn opinion, that on you have crossed the line and betrayed your spouse, it can never be the same, I would also be afraid, because there would be no forgiveness, I would be out on my ear and the love could possibly turn to hate.

totally agree with you rover.i think when someone has cheated that line has been crossed and there is no going back,recently split with a girl i had been seen for a few years,had done the dirt on her many times.she actually knew about one of these times but forgive me but in the end it was me who finished the relationship because i felt shit about myself for cheating on her.she deserved better than me.

[lonely]

He was and I did

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did things between ye feel the same after you found out tho.and wer you working as an escort at time?

[Taylor of Manchester]

I think this job gives you a better understanding of how men think.

Men are programmed to impregnate, not saying that is the reason guys go looking for sex - but the basic need is there.

You look at how popular swinging is - shagging away while the wife is too - but with someone else......

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[Taylor of Manchester]

did things between ye feel the same after you found out tho.and wer you working as an escort at time?

Sex is sex honey, we were swingers, I was working too. Some girls he would pay for it, and some, if he didn't think they were up to scratch - he wouldn't.

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[English Milly Masseuse]

LOL its like this in a lot of cases love is blind and marriage is an eye opener ......also when the money stops coming in the love is out the window thats just the way it is

I have alwAYS worked, even when my X husband of 15 years suggested I didn't need to work. I like having my own money and I have always loved to spoil my man.

I took a guy out for dinner the other night and he was amazed that I bought the drinks at the bar AND paid for the meal.....this IS NOT ABNORMAL!

I think you are looking at the wrong attributes guys!

It works both ways, but I find tight men a real turn off, just as much as I dont like men that throw their money around!!

B x

[Rodney69]

It's down to the individual how shallow they are. Doesn't matter if they are male or female. look at some of the comments Wayne Rooney has come out with this week as an example.

But having said that I've come across a few women who I know married for the financial security, the kids and the house, and were not that suited to their husbands. In some cases they are separated now. It happens all the time. The very same women would look down at any woman who is an Escort, but what they are doing is for financial gain too

At least all you great Escorts are open and honest about what you are doing. And so long as you are enjoying it and in full control of what you are doing, then fair play to you. So far for me, the escorts I have met have been all very nice people who know what they want, have a plan for what they want to do. good luck to you I say.