To the Single Guys who punt

**Dirty Harry** · 06-09-10, 21:10

Originally Posted by nicegirlsarenice

No.

If you want a relationship then you can go out and get one.

If you need some sort of "incentive" like sex to go into a relationship then you don't want one anyway in the first place, you just like the idea.

of course you can go out and get a relationship but it has to be someone special someone you really want to be with and it has to be the same for the girl there is no point in just getting into a relationship just to say you have someone that won't work so its just not as easy as it sound don't you think?

**Finbar** · 06-09-10, 21:16

I agree with you 100%. I find it quite hard to pick up women as I'm quite a quiet person on first meetings, I'm easy to talk to after a little while but I guess its all down to first impressions. I'd have to make an extra effort to keep a conversation going with someone I just met but lately I have been thinking fuck it there are easier ways. I've got to a stage though where I'd rather a bit more, because of this I've decided to give up seeing escorts... after one more time.

**Dirty Harry** · 06-09-10, 21:16

Originally Posted by feargal

I was in a relationship for too many years, now I have no interest in a relationship, but as time goes by I find myself going to visit beautiful escorts more often, its costing me a fortune

thats correct but there are worse thing that you could be spending it on lol i will put it too you this way if you were just looking for sex and you were to bring a good looking girl out on the town the taxi the drinks the meal and at the end of the night you might get sex

you might if she is in the mood the good chance is she will say na fook off i'm not in the mood tonight might do it next week then next week comes there is still no guarantee is there escort is the best option what you think

**kidkool** · 06-09-10, 21:26

Originally Posted by Dirty Harry

thats correct but there are worse thing that you could be spending it on lol i will put it too you this way if you were just looking for sex and you were to bring a good looking girl out on the town the taxi the drinks the meal and at the end of the night you might get sex

you might if she is in the mood the good chance is she will say na fook off i'm not in the mood tonight might do it next week then next week comes there is still no guarantee is there escort is the best option what you think

well that would be a common arguement on here, that by dating woman your spending fortune and might get nowhere with her.. where as on here you take that cash and give it for half hour or hour of bit crazy fun!!

Both have pro's and con's to the situation really.. each man to their own! wont lie I will no doubt punt again but its kinda worrying me now that if i was to meet that special woman then I think I might continue seeing one or two ladies from here while two years back I never would have!!

**dub1** · 06-09-10, 21:26

I have to agree with Navillus04 Im in much better form. Better At work, rest And play.

**Dirty Harry** · 06-09-10, 21:38

Originally Posted by kidkool

well that would be a common arguement on here, that by dating woman your spending fortune and might get nowhere with her.. where as on here you take that cash and give it for half hour or hour of bit crazy fun!!

Both have pro's and con's to the situation really.. each man to their own! wont lie I will no doubt punt again but its kinda worrying me now that if i was to meet that special woman then I think I might continue seeing one or two ladies from here while two years back I never would have!!

i hear you brother it happens but to be totally honest and i have said this before and will say it again if i was ever lucky to meet that special little lady that would be my punting days over and i mean that i would then hang up my boots probably would still post mind you but for the moment its punts sweet punts

**kidkool** · 06-09-10, 21:46

Much like you DH I'd be thinking the same.. have dated few women over the last few months and had stopped but the so called "special lil lady" didnt turn out to be that special after all lol so back to punting again!!

**Rockman** · 07-09-10, 10:52

Im single at the moment and starting to see a friend from work, not really sure if it’s dating or not but it might lead into a relationship. Funny im not too bothered if it does or not if it happens it happens if not it doesn't. She is a gorgeous looking girl and I made a point of seeing an escort the afternoon before our first date so as I could properly appraise the situation and not be thinking with my dick.

We have been on 2 dates and have flirted a little but nothing more and as I type this I am thinking I just don’t give a sh**e if this happens or not. You know in life if you have been hurt you yourself become a colder person and can go on to inflict similar onto others.

Obviously I don’t care about her and now think I should end it before I end up in her bed complicating things. But then again if I don’t give a sh**e why am I worried about hurting her ? I need some lovin, better go to the hole in the wall later.

**Notatwork** · 07-09-10, 11:05

Lads whatever happened to courting a girl,getting to know her,rather than trying to just get the knickers off her on the first date,where the style lads!

**Doozer** · 07-09-10, 11:41

Originally Posted by Notatwork

Lads whatever happened to courting a girl,getting to know her,rather than trying to just get the knickers off her on the first date,where the style lads!

Its teh generation Sex age. Some lads jusst want a sexual relationship from the off so any delay in that will have them wanting escorts. The days of roamncing a lady seems to have died a bit and todays younger generation just want it now, without having to work too hard to get it.

They dont seem to like the thrill of the chase anymore

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