Most escorts offer GFE but you are right, this cannot be forced.
The professional lady will always make the effort but if her efforts don’t go anywhere or there is zero chemistry between client and escort, then her efforts would be in vain.
Going with the flow sounds like a more reasonable idea if you want to enjoy your appointment.
Once you get an attractive escort who matches her photos, with a nice attitude, clean & hygienic, who is making the effort to make you as a client feel good in her company, you should feel good. At the end of the day, that's why you are there and most punters in the word would be happy to receive such services.
It is good to have sites such as E-I where clients can see what the others are up to and share ideas and reccomondations, but the thing with such sites is that the mentality of the punter can also change to a very unrealistic level. It is not enough with most clients that they get french kissing, this has to be passionate and very very deep.It is not enough with most clients that they get a BJ. No, they want OWO. From OWO to CIM is just a step. From CIM to swallowing is another step. You get the idea here.
I had a client long ago where I offered CIM and I swallowed because I felt like it at the time. Guess what, next time he wanted to make an appointment, he insisted on the phone for the swallowing part. I tried to explain there demanding me to perform this service would not make me not to accept the appointment. It happen first time because I went to the flow but under no circumstances I would let someone impose that one me.
Look at this review for example:
Escort Ireland - Escort Reviews - Review 027980 - Irish Independent Escorts, Irish Touring Escorts, Irish Escort Agencies
The guy paid only 80 Euro for sex, lap dancing, OWO and tea bagging with a 22 years old beautiful girl with 65 reviews.
The review was negative because she was "very mechanical" !!!
I understand he might have been disappointed by this but how in the name of good would a girl who is providing all the requested services can be given a negative review?
Clearly that was a case of missing chemistry and also unreasonable expectations from the reviewer.