Why Men who use prostitutes can be as dangerous as Larry Murphy

[espensen]

I love Ruhama and the crap the come out with. I can't get se with regular women, so I use escorts. I have to pay for sex. If Ruhama can sponsor a women for me, maybe two a week, then GREAT, WOO HOO, I'll never use escortd again. The government needs to introduce S.G.R's and the sooner the better.

oh, and what is an S.G.R I hear you say.

A STATE GUARANTEED RIDE.

[espensen]

Oh God here I go, and trying to stop escorting has two major effects

INCREASES MALE SUICIDE (because if we depended on the women we have here to have sex with you, we would be waiting a lifetime and suffer from major hand cramp)

2) INCREASES RAPE. Escorting probably prevents rape!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Seriously. Well, some. You're horny, you want to have sex, there's no escorts because the govt sent them all out of the country, what's left to do, rape. What should be done, nothing. leave things the way they are. You're horny, you make a call, you get sex. Voila.

Ruhama is an over funded muppet group.

[Ric Hardgear]

The difference between having consensual sex with a woman and having sex with a prostitute is that in the former case the man must keep up some semblance of a relationship. He must put up with the woman being a person with her own needs, emotions and desires. In the latter case, there are no such obligations. He can demand that the prostitute perform whatever sexual act he wants her to perform, however repugnant it might be. He can hurt her with acts of physical violence, and he can abuse her with language which is full of hatred towards women. All those words which are used so casually in the everyday world take on a new and menacing potency in the context of abusive, forced sex.

This portrayal of me ,is scary,sad wrong and scare mongering,I have read Patricia's anger at Ruhama with a cynics eye "sure Shes gonna hate them arent they affecting her income" but never in my years as a punter have I ever seen abuse towards girls as depicted in this article,and if I ever came across slavery where a girl was unhappy to be in the situation with me I would have tried to help her and phone a solicitor god help us from this right wing shite

[espensen]

It might go on, but on a serious scale, if any decent punter met an escort and dhe was very fragile and he sensed something was wrong from her body language, the best thing he could do is tip off the guards that something wasn't right and to check it out.

[chancer]

It is not fair to brand all men who use escorts with the same brush.
What about men who are ugly and unattractive or who do not have the personality to attract women?
Escorts may be their only outled if they want a woman.
I don't see why there should be a problem for such men useing escorts, PROVIDED the wonen they choose are doing it by their own free will, enjoy doing it, and that they receive the fees paid.

[Ric Hardgear]

It might go on, but on a serious scale, if any decent punter met an escort and dhe was very fragile and he sensed something was wrong from her body language, the best thing he could do is tip off the guards that something wasn't right and to check it out.

Ofcourse nobody gets a thrill out of having sex with an upset girl ..some do but their locked away, but for Ruhmours their is no diff between us and rapists

[Lucy Chambers]

The difference between having consensual sex with a woman and having sex with a prostitute is that in the former case the man must keep up some semblance of a relationship. He must put up with the woman being a person with her own needs, emotions and desires. In the latter case, there are no such obligations. He can demand that the prostitute perform whatever sexual act he wants her to perform, however repugnant it might be. He can hurt her with acts of physical violence, and he can abuse her with language which is full of hatred towards women. All those words which are used so casually in the everyday world take on a new and menacing potency in the context of abusive, forced sex.

This portrayal of me ,is scary,sad wrong and scare mongering,I have read Patricia's anger at Ruhama with a cynics eye "sure Shes gonna hate them arent they affecting her income" but never in my years as a punter have I ever seen abuse towards girls as depicted in this article,and if I ever came across slavery where a girl was unhappy to be in the situation with me I would have tried to help her and phone a solicitor god help us from this right wing shite

Ric, I have just dumped my other cyber lovers- we are all set. Excellent post.

[dark-knight]

I would like to point out at this time that 'Monkeynut does not use prostitutes'. Monkeynut visits Escorts on occasion. These lucky ladies have the best time of their lives during these visits.

Escort, prostitute, call girl whatever you like to call it, its still paying for sex which is prostitution. Maybe I am being blunt but I like to call a spade " a spade".

I do preferr the escort and client over prostitute and punter.

[nicegirlsarenice]

I don't. I'm a client and she's a prostitute. I don't find there to be anything wrong with these terms.

I feel a lot more sorry for people who serve me at the local takeaway or shop.

[kidkool]

Every week on here there is a post slating the government and or ruhuma about their "work".. now I'm not saying I agree with a single word they said.. but I will say this..

If the escorts on here and the people who run this site are so out right against the message ruhuma give to the media and the general public...

Why are the escorts and the providers on this site not out in the media giving their version of the story also?? surely if you felt so strongly against the articles they publish continually.. someone would take a stand.. not just be on here and have a pointless nag about them being a deeply rooted catholic organisation and full of b.s!!!

Is there no leader on here that will go public, say yes.. I am and escort and what ruhuma say is crap.. here is my story!!

I dont see a single effort being made to fight back on here against the articles ruhuma produce on a weekly basis for the irish public to read!!