I already spend plenty of money on my family between presents, holidays etc.
In the early days of a relationship gifts are usually well rewarded but after 10-15 years they tend to be taken for granted and, therefore, there is no reward to be reaped.
The money I spend on escorts is there because I don't smoke, drink or lead an excessive lifestyle.
I am entitled to some pleasure in life and if it means visiting an escort to get that pleasure, well so be it.