sometimes they go for stuff they cant get at home
Some good points here Spur but as I have said before have my own logic and satisfy my conscience in my own way. I kinda consider it like have a wank… but a biiiiig wank. Is watching a porno in private being unfaithful. And before I am attacked from all quarters…yeah I know its not the same thing but it’s a means to try and explain my logic.
No I wouldn’t encourage it Ber. And yet I do visit escorts myself. As I have said before I am a greedy selfish bastard. But in a strange way I feel that my ability to see an escort actually helps me keep my marriage together. I think it would be worse if I went looking to have an affair to satisfy my sexual needs. So by visiting an escort every so often I can top up on my sex drug and return to normal life a happy man.
Unfortunately I tend to top up way to often, so maybe my argument is totally fcuked up here. Lol.
I'm with you James, I know I'm being hypocritical when I say I don't feel physical cheating with an escort is near as bad as emotionally cheating in an affair, one is just sex and back home to the loving companionship of your wife, the other is sharing that loving companionship with another lady.
It also makes me laugh when I read single lads coming on here saying no way would they cheat if they were in a stable relationship . You don't know that so don't be making statements you can't back up
BTW, it's not always the wife has lost interest in sex or the man has gone off her, like James said, sometimes it's just variety is the driving force..
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I am single and always have been when visiting escots and thats the way it will always be!..
I even sometimes feel bad doing it being single so I know for sure I just couldnt handle doing it if in a relationship
if you love someone..and there is a problem you try to fix it... not go and cheat... and it is cheating...
I know for sure I couldnt even look a wife/girlfriend in the eyes if I had been to see a escort while with her...
despite what people seem to believe there are some of us who are loyal and faithful....
just wish I had someone to be faithful to
Captain J...
"Courtesy costs nothing, yet buys things that are priceless." - Respect for all Escorts at all times!...
Captain Jack Sparrow - I make water wet
Thank you Ladies for the good times x..
ber (12-08-10), diannasweet (12-08-10)
Ah, thanks be to god....I was wondering if I was the only married man here.
I like the physical/emotional cheating bit bud, you have thought this through I can see. When I visit an escort I do not require nor partake in GFE or FK. Its just the sex and thanks a bunch. All was going well till I met a certain little honey and now Im the biggest hypocrite on EI.
I have never condoned my practices nor have I said I consider myself totally faithful to my wife, I have only stated that I have a certain element of conscience comfort. But there is allways the risk of letting down the guard and allowing the physical bleed into the emotional. I am only human ....
I never cheated nor ever would in a stable relationship guys trying to justify the act of cheating as something else are fooling themselves trust & respect goes out the door get out of the relationship & save the woman a lifetime of emotional damage, women whether they are escorts or whatever who say every man is a cheating bastard dont know any better its a terribly unfortunate thing for a woman to feel they can never trust a man again way due to having been cheated on..
ber (12-08-10), diannasweet (12-08-10), jacksparrow2010 (12-08-10)
Sorry but when you are in a stable relationship for 15 years plus and you can still say you are 100% faithful then I will give you your dues till then I'll take what any single man says with a pinch of salt
BTW, I'm not justifying my actions, I'm happy with my arrangements and I can carry my own cross TYVM
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