Cheating B****rds

[bigladdub]

would not be better for a man to hold it in his pants and be faithfull to the compromise that he did?????????

so at the end of all the posts poggo most men seem to cheat so cant blame the girls for telling ya what they did and disbelieve in a man being faith full.......

Dianna

Of course it makes sense for someone not to cheat... That is always better...

sometimes that is what really happens... and we should all aspire towards that. shoulnt we??

BLD

[immoratal]

sometimes they go for stuff they cant get at home

[JAMESCORK]

I was married now divorced so i think i can see both sides here.I have to say when i with my ex the one thing i would never do is cheat.If you can not stay faithful to your wife than you shouldn't stay with her.You say you still love her so how can you be so unfaithful to her.Alot of things can be forgiven but not cheating.I would just like to add that my marriage did not break down because one of us cheated.

Some good points here Spur but as I have said before have my own logic and satisfy my conscience in my own way. I kinda consider it like have a wank… but a biiiiig wank. Is watching a porno in private being unfaithful. And before I am attacked from all quarters…yeah I know its not the same thing but it’s a means to try and explain my logic.

[CrackShotJack]

Ok was with an escort once and she asked me if I was married or had a G/F, I said no and being a talkitive kind of chap, added that I would not visit escorts if I was involved in a committed relationship, she replied with a look of disbelief: so your telling me you have never cheated??? I said I had not..she just would not believe this and went on to say that all men were the same..I assumed this was the opinion of someone who had worked in escorting and saw a lot of men who were married and formed this assumption from her experience in that field...but no I was wrong curiously most of the women whom I have spoken to on this subject believe that men are a bunch of cheating bastards who do not have the ability to show fidelity...(please do not take this the wrong way it is in no way intended as a critisism)..so is this true????

Poggo.................

the woman works in the sex industry, you think she's gonna have the same opinion of men as a woman who doesn't work in the sex industry? She see's a side to men that most people don't.

[JAMESCORK]

Thats not what i said i said unless u are a total hypocrite u would not have a problem with it ?or would u
So if u found out in the morning she banged the postman just for sex cause she was horny u would say fair play to her.
Just have a think about that when u lay down alongside her tonight

No I wouldn’t encourage it Ber. And yet I do visit escorts myself. As I have said before I am a greedy selfish bastard. But in a strange way I feel that my ability to see an escort actually helps me keep my marriage together. I think it would be worse if I went looking to have an affair to satisfy my sexual needs. So by visiting an escort every so often I can top up on my sex drug and return to normal life a happy man.

Unfortunately I tend to top up way to often, so maybe my argument is totally fcuked up here. Lol.

[anon361]

I'm with you James, I know I'm being hypocritical when I say I don't feel physical cheating with an escort is near as bad as emotionally cheating in an affair, one is just sex and back home to the loving companionship of your wife, the other is sharing that loving companionship with another lady.
It also makes me laugh when I read single lads coming on here saying no way would they cheat if they were in a stable relationship . You don't know that so don't be making statements you can't back up

BTW, it's not always the wife has lost interest in sex or the man has gone off her, like James said, sometimes it's just variety is the driving force..

[jacksparrow2010]

It also makes me laugh when I read single lads coming on here saying no way would they cheat if they were in a stable relationship . You don't know that so don't be making statements you can't back up

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I am single and always have been when visiting escots and thats the way it will always be!..

I even sometimes feel bad doing it being single so I know for sure I just couldnt handle doing it if in a relationship
if you love someone..and there is a problem you try to fix it... not go and cheat... and it is cheating...

I know for sure I couldnt even look a wife/girlfriend in the eyes if I had been to see a escort while with her...
despite what people seem to believe there are some of us who are loyal and faithful....

just wish I had someone to be faithful to

Captain J...

[JAMESCORK]

I'm with you James, I know I'm being hypocritical when I say I don't feel physical cheating with an escort is near as bad as emotionally cheating in an affair, one is just sex and back home to the loving companionship of your wife, the other is sharing that loving companionship with another lady.
It also makes me laugh when I read single lads coming on here saying no way would they cheat if they were in a stable relationship . You don't know that so don't be making statements you can't back up

BTW, it's not always the wife has lost interest in sex or the man has gone off her, like James said, sometimes it's just variety is the driving force..

Ah, thanks be to god....I was wondering if I was the only married man here.

I like the physical/emotional cheating bit bud, you have thought this through I can see. When I visit an escort I do not require nor partake in GFE or FK. Its just the sex and thanks a bunch. All was going well till I met a certain little honey and now Im the biggest hypocrite on EI.

I have never condoned my practices nor have I said I consider myself totally faithful to my wife, I have only stated that I have a certain element of conscience comfort. But there is allways the risk of letting down the guard and allowing the physical bleed into the emotional. I am only human ....

[Experienced Punter esq]

I never cheated nor ever would in a stable relationship guys trying to justify the act of cheating as something else are fooling themselves trust & respect goes out the door get out of the relationship & save the woman a lifetime of emotional damage, women whether they are escorts or whatever who say every man is a cheating bastard dont know any better its a terribly unfortunate thing for a woman to feel they can never trust a man again way due to having been cheated on..

[anon361]

I never cheated nor ever would in a stable relationship guys trying to justify the act of cheating as something else are fooling themselves trust & respect goes out the door get out of the relationship & save the woman a lifetime of emotional damage, women whether they are escorts or whatever who say every man is a cheating bastard dont know any better its a terribly unfortunate thing for a woman to feel they can never trust a man again way due to having been cheated on..

Sorry but when you are in a stable relationship for 15 years plus and you can still say you are 100% faithful then I will give you your dues till then I'll take what any single man says with a pinch of salt

BTW, I'm not justifying my actions, I'm happy with my arrangements and I can carry my own cross TYVM