hey guys, it's just a goddamn job. My ex is a poledancer. I caught her smoking some of 'that crack' and I dropped her.
I couldn't marry an escort though, fuck that shit.
hey guys, it's just a goddamn job. My ex is a poledancer. I caught her smoking some of 'that crack' and I dropped her.
I couldn't marry an escort though, fuck that shit.
I am not really fond of the word marriage but if I am in love with someone I want to be only with him, escorting is a business but there is a lot of "you" in it, so no, being in love with someone makes the job harder.
I am sorry but I didn't get it, what her job has to do with her "smoking that crack". Did you accept her being a poledancer?
Last edited by Jasmin; 09-08-10 at 10:06.
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for sure, but she was smoking that crack all the time.
Marrying an Escort is not the best of groundings for a lasting relationship but hey, true love can conquer and endure all things.
Last edited by GordonGayBennett; 09-08-10 at 10:34.
Lucy, I think you have answered the question yourself and it is supported by SD. I presume a relationship would exist for some time between these two hypothetical individuals and all the issues about....... freedom,....away on tour,.... meeting new people,... your fiance knowing that other guys will have known you...... will have arisen in that early relationship. It is difficult to see that
the relationship could move on to successful marriage without big changes . I sense that the loss of freedom ( based on money and mobility) is what many escorts will find hardest to abandon and I sense that many in the Mature catergory have tried the married relationhip and it did not work out for both as they wanted their lives to continue.
It is a sticky area for many of the girls who want to make a change and want to feel genuinely loved by someone for who they are and not what the are!! Many of the girls I have met are just delightful characters in many ways and would be great fun to be around if the circumstances were right.
Lucy, you certainly have stirred up a great discussion topic here and with the experience you have you maybe able to help a lot
of girls and guys get this sorted out!!
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Lucy Chambers (11-08-10)
Only if I got a special discount in the bedroom.
I think you have to look at it like this, to me, sex and relationships are two completely different things.
Sex is just a physical act, and you dont need to love that person. A relationship is must harder, requires allot more than just the physical side. I think it is about separating the two things.