Could you marry an escort?

[Dirty Harry]

Ah shite.....
I walked into that one..

its not too hard to walk into it when old eagle eyes westsidex is around

[Westsidex]

I thought you were talking about the girl you mentioned, former lapdancer..and yes, it was a generalisation, I wouldn't dream of talking about my clients.

She was never on this site. Another ex of mine was but is gone a good while. What i meant was , if you cant turn to your husband who can you turn to? Of course the girl will talk about work stuff if she had a bad day and she will bring it home with her therefore effecting your day. Not ideal for a marriage talking about some guy she was with that day.

dont ask ppl,
Westside.

[Lucy Chambers]

hi lucy
if you get to a marrige point, then, surely, this a point where 2 people, say, thats it, you and me only, or am i being to stupid here?

Yes, I would agree..but you see for me it wouldn't mean I was being unfaithful. I realise that it would be for most men though.

[Alec Horan]

And still allow her to be an escort?

only if I could watch..............................

[anon361]

If a girl I was thinking about marrying told me she used to be an escort, OK, I'd be pissed but I wouldn't end the relationship just because of that, I don't think I would be unreasonable asking for her to get medically checked out and allowing me access to her results though, would I?
I could never marry a lady that was still working, too many complications, one big one for me is if you can't have un-protected sex with your wife who can you have it with but if she was still working there's no way I'd risk it which is bound to put a strain on any relationship, that and the emotional turmoil you both are bound to go through.
Me aside I can only imagine the mixed feelings she would feel having to work as an escort to bring in enough cash to support herself especially if she was getting a run of bad clients or on the flip side if she enjoyed it a little too much with a client would she feel she is cheating?
I can't help but think any man that marries an active escort and has no problem with it has some underlying fetish (I'm sure there probably is a name for it) and that too could cause problems because maybe she comes to that realisation and it upsets her as he didn't really marry her for her but for what she is?

[Lucy Chambers]

No you're right it's not really the same. I think Belle-de-jour, the blogging part-timer eventually had to give up and come out into the open because her ex-boyfriend was going to out her. Dating was difficult for her afterwards because the men she wanted to date, never quite had the same level of expertise or appetite. But it was easy for her to leave, because she made a fortune from books.

If you're an escort and have to give up escorting to see a guy you like or love, that's a serious sacrifice no? If you want to keep your independence, you're going to have to find a normal job.

Many people try the "open relationship", as in "I love you, but sometimes I have sex with other people", I just don't think it is stable long term.
We all need love, no question. Don't know how it got mixed up with sex. But there you have it. Anyway hope you find someone special.

Interesting points and very true. Thank you. I like my life just as it is though, so I guess I will be single for a while.

[thehighwayman]

I wouldn't marry an escort whose still working. It would wreck my head her seeing all these guys. Also when you would read the reviews saying she's the best gfe ever just like the real thing it would get to me. She would have to be out of the game. I wouldn't make any escort leave because of me. I just wouldn't have a relationship with her while she's still working.

[jacksparrow2010]

if I was in love with her I would marry her... but its hard to say if I would be able to handle her working...
yes its a job.. but a very intimate job... hard to think of other guys with your girl... every time your with her
you would be thinking of all the guys she might of seen... and how many she may have really enjoyed.. that very day/week

and there's also the other side could she trust you.. if she met you through work everytime your away or late home she might think you have seen a escort!.... so trust may be fragile in that relationship...

but personally id do my best to make it work... and id have no problem stoping seeing escorts for her...
for me its cheating(sorry guys) I do it while im single and would stop if that changed...
as for her working I wouldnt make her stop Id let her make her own mind up...

Captain J...

[Westsidex]

If a girl I was thinking about marrying told me she used to be an escort, OK, I'd be pissed but I wouldn't end the relationship just because of that, I don't think I would be unreasonable asking for her to get medically checked out and allowing me access to her results though, would I?

No offence but what would make you so sure she might want to marry a guy that visited or visits escorts?

she might end it over that,
Westside.

[rover]

I'd marry the whole damn lot of them and have lots of babies.