Last edited by Westsidex; 21-07-10 at 14:33.
Yeah Westie I understand what you’re saying but it’s the nature of this job the way its such an intimate thing, I even wondering if it can have a negative effect on the girls long after its all over? Like how hard is it to have a proper relationship after they’ve retired?
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the nature of this job the way its such an intimate thing
It isnt. If it was she wouldnt be able to do her job. Its mechanical, going through the motions. The real good escorts will have you leave feeling like their was intimacy so you feel attached to her and go back for more.
I even wondering if it can have a negative effect on the girls long after its all over?
I guess it depends on what an escort wanted out of the job and whether she got what she wanted. If she did any negativity would be cancelled out by the satifaction of achievement.
Like how hard is it to have a proper relationship after they’ve retired?
Your assuming that they arent in a relationship to begin with while working. If you ever met an escort outside of her job you would even have a hard time visualising her doing it. Its like meeting any other woman you know. Some girls are bi and have gfs which is totally different to having a bf.
Westside.
I think he means to say that it's BOTH.
Many of the ladies go through it with mechanical functioning, but the good ones are able to give a very convincing performance, making you think that it wasn't just another mechanical run-through. I suppose the really good ones can do this well, and I've had a few that I'd say were well capable of making you feel like you were the biggest stud on Earth when you've been with them, even if for them you were actually just another client.
Last edited by Cable87; 21-07-10 at 15:20.
Big J (22-08-12)
Maybe i should word things better but when i write i write within the context of what im thinking at the time. In teh context of my first post i should have replaced the word intimate with something else maybe. Maybe teh word sexual would be better replacing intimate in the first post.
Westside.
Last edited by Westsidex; 21-07-10 at 15:34.
theres only two things an escort needs to be able to do her job. Be treated with respect and proper hygiene. I mean who goes home with someone they met in a club etc and says to them when things get hot, you have to take a shower now? Escorts do because it makes their job easier if the guy is clean. The girl from the club could care less because its attraction of some type and real intimacy. Course if a persons smells like last weeks dinner it mightn't be a bad idea to freshen up but generally not a big deal.
What your saying is right. The best escorts are the ones who convince a guy he is the best she has had, after all they are trying to build up a list of regulars.
Westside.
Last edited by Westsidex; 21-07-10 at 15:35.
Well said Westie, and yes, I'm not sure why it is that so many lads seem to go to escorts with hygiene issues, it certainly must make the ladies job a lot more difficult, and an 'award-winning performance' on their part close to impossible if they're being put-off by some wanker that seems to have forgotten what a shower is for.
Last edited by Cable87; 21-07-10 at 19:08.
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