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    I had lunch with an old colleague of mine. He's 35 and married for 2 years.
    His wife is extremely fit and attractive. He seemed a bit down today, so I
    asked him what was up. At first he said nothing, but his eyes were saying otherwise.
    Anyhow, He told me that the wife is avoiding sex with him. I asked why and
    he said he did not know. He told me November was the last time they made love?

    I'm single and although I gave him a bit of assurance, I drove home thinking
    "what the fuck?". They have'nt talked about it since Christmas. I feel sorry for
    him and would like to help him with it-but I have to admit I'm clueless as to what
    could be wrong-any advice?

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    Quote Originally Posted by warmcome View Post
    I had lunch with an old colleague of mine. He's 35 and married for 2 years.
    His wife is extremely fit and attractive. He seemed a bit down today, so I
    asked him what was up. At first he siad nothing, but his eyes was saying otherwise.
    Anyhow, He told me that the wife is avoiding sex with him. I asked why and
    he said he did not know. He told me November was the last time they made love?

    I'm single and although I gave him a bit of assurance, I drove home thinking
    "what the fuck?". They have'nt talked about it since Christmas. I feel sorry for
    him and would like to help him with it-but I have to admit I'm clueless as to what could be wrong-any advice?
    his wife must be horny by now...ask your mate to meet you in a town about 50 miles away and while he is gone you pay a "visit"to the wife.

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    best advice to give is to talk to her...find out why? is something wrong.

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    Quote Originally Posted by warmcome View Post
    I had lunch with an old colleague of mine. He's 35 and married for 2 years.
    His wife is extremely fit and attractive. He seemed a bit down today, so I
    asked him what was up. At first he said nothing, but his eyes were saying otherwise.
    Anyhow, He told me that the wife is avoiding sex with him. I asked why and
    he said he did not know. He told me November was the last time they made love?

    I'm single and although I gave him a bit of assurance, I drove home thinking
    "what the fuck?". They have'nt talked about it since Christmas. I feel sorry for
    him and would like to help him with it-but I have to admit I'm clueless as to what
    could be wrong-any advice?
    Ah sur thats the recission for u
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    Quote Originally Posted by warmcome View Post
    I had lunch with an old colleague of mine. He's 35 and married for 2 years.
    His wife is extremely fit and attractive. He seemed a bit down today, so I
    asked him what was up. At first he said nothing, but his eyes were saying otherwise.
    Anyhow, He told me that the wife is avoiding sex with him. I asked why and
    he said he did not know. He told me November was the last time they made love?

    I'm single and although I gave him a bit of assurance, I drove home thinking
    "what the fuck?". They have'nt talked about it since Christmas. I feel sorry for
    him and would like to help him with it-but I have to admit I'm clueless as to what
    could be wrong-any advice?
    Mind your own business. Himself and his wife will be ok but youll loose a good friend. Keep out of it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ber View Post
    Give her Vouchers


    that should help

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    Any advice might to more harm than good,its a private matter between a man and a wife.
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    Quote Originally Posted by warmcome View Post
    I had lunch with an old colleague of mine. He's 35 and married for 2 years.
    His wife is extremely fit and attractive. He seemed a bit down today, so I
    asked him what was up. At first he said nothing, but his eyes were saying otherwise.
    Anyhow, He told me that the wife is avoiding sex with him. I asked why and
    he said he did not know. He told me November was the last time they made love?

    I'm single and although I gave him a bit of assurance, I drove home thinking
    "what the fuck?". They have'nt talked about it since Christmas. I feel sorry for
    him and would like to help him with it-but I have to admit I'm clueless as to what
    could be wrong-any advice?
    And if it gets worse youll be seen as an interfering geit and probably blamed for the whole lot. If they are drifting then they are drifting and you wont stop it.

    seen it before,
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    [QUOTE=warmcome; I feel sorry for
    him and would like to help him with it?[/QUOTE]

    Are u going to have sex with him ?


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    Quote Originally Posted by warmcome View Post
    I had lunch with an old colleague of mine. He's 35 and married for 2 years.
    His wife is extremely fit and attractive. He seemed a bit down today, so I
    asked him what was up. At first he said nothing, but his eyes were saying otherwise.
    Anyhow, He told me that the wife is avoiding sex with him. I asked why and
    he said he did not know. He told me November was the last time they made love?

    I'm single and although I gave him a bit of assurance, I drove home thinking
    "what the fuck?". They have'nt talked about it since Christmas. I feel sorry for
    him and would like to help him with it-but I have to admit I'm clueless as to what
    could be wrong-any advice?
    This sort of thing happens to all couples at some stage. After the initial getting to know each other, and shagging like it's going out of fashion, people settle into routines. Sex goes off the menu and more important stuff like family, money and work become the priority. It's usually the female that loses interest first, but there are times when it's the guy.

    If he is not already doing this, he could try being more attentive to his wife, cooking meals, taking her out somewhere different, being more romantic, but not expecting sex as the net result. Of course, talking to her without it turning into a row is no harm either. In time she will appreciate all these nice gestures and her desires will return.

    If they don't already have kids she could be broody or depressed about leaving it too late, and if they already have kids, sure everyone knows that kids take over a home and sex goes out the window for a while.

    The best thing he can do is keep the faith and it should resolve itself with a little extra kindness and love from both sides.

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